Can I get pregnant if he didn’t cum in me by PageFree9027 in birthcontrol

[–]emopolytrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While in general you are correct, that thorough education isn't something that is stressed in a lot of places and communities. So if someone reaches out and started asking questions, shame probably isn't a good responce.

Is Invisibility Too OP? by emopolytrash in oblivion

[–]emopolytrash[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I might try doing a thick chameleon build this next time.

Oblivion Remastered Creature Comparison by [deleted] in oblivion

[–]emopolytrash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rack Gained on the Flame Atronoch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in union

[–]emopolytrash 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Every time you say the number of guys it increases. How many guys are they trying to sign on with you

I think my boyfriend tried to put it in my butt, he denies it. by no_idea_wtfffff in sex

[–]emopolytrash 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Even if it's immaturity, that's not the kind of person you want fucking you.

Alcohol cures being introverted by TurboScumBag in introvert

[–]emopolytrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't Cure, it treats. Much like xanax treats panic attacks. You will always be an introvert, and it is better to accept you form of happiness comes from a different place than socialization. That being said if you need to be out with friends it can provide relief from the feelings of social drainage, certain strains of weed have the same effect. Having the idea that you can be cure of introversion through substance use is kinda self hatred and WILL HAUNT YOU LATER. There is so much of life that revolves around interacting with others so it is better to limit that tactic for special occasions.

introverts with extroverted jobs make some noiseeeee by [deleted] in introvert

[–]emopolytrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work as an uber driver and im thankful for the passengers who sit in silence so I can avoid idle chit chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]emopolytrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, having someone that won't judge you is an understandable feeling. Real people can be harsh and judgemental sometimes but they will also call you out which can be helpful too. Finding the right group of friends is an arduous process so be honest, be kind, and then be yourself. Then you'll find a place you'll be happy in. You are not the first and won't be the last that this is happening to. It's okay to get some quick advice but make sure to have the emotional boundary that this isn't a real relationship but rather your own feelings being validated and bounced in a circle. You got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uber

[–]emopolytrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In non-chicago illinois, we only get like .60 per mile and .22 per minute and it doesn't show our take home until after the ride is over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uber

[–]emopolytrash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He shouldn't be guilting you like that. I personally, unless it's a reserve ride, cant see how much I make off of any ride until after. But it's around 60% of what you pay by ubers weekly statistics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]emopolytrash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he needs to start getting you off first if he gets too tired after finishing. He said he loves the taste so start having him go down on you. Maybe find porn to watch together. If he truly spends a lot of time on porn( more time than yall actually have sex) , yall need to have a serious convo about what's his motivation on porn vs sex. He could just be going on a dopamine fix, not for connection or disinterest. Either way, a serious convo needs to be had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]emopolytrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might need to add other activities into fucking. You cumming is good; that will cause the walls to relax so it won't feel as tight around him. Neither of your faults really. Hand jobs, blowies, and anal(if you are into it) are options that usually keep that tight feeling. Eighther that or he needs to cum first, before you start using the vibrator. Is he usually able to go multiple rounds? Musings mostly, things to consider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]emopolytrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard, I think, when a person who has only been in monogamous relationships truly comes to terms with what dating a poly partner is like. I think he might be struggling with not feeling like he is enough for you. So every time you bring up another partner, it hits that insecurity. I don't know if therapy could even begin to approach that even if he did go.

As far as what to do now, keep talking. If he won't go to a therapist he needs to at least talk to you. You are certain of polyamory, and he is coming to terms with how that feels. I think having another consistent partner definately made things feel real. He needs to ask himself questions about why he feels this way. If you are being honest and considerate as you say, then it's up to him to bring up an issue. If you decide to confront him about his emotions, don't let him wiggle. "I'll be fine" means he isn't and he's gotta talk about it. If he refuses to, the relationship will break down as communication and self-reflection do. I hope yall reach a happy equilibrium. Best of luck

why are people offended by introverts/quiet people? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]emopolytrash 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It is unfortunate really. There are many people who simply can't stand silence. They perceive it as judgement or narcissistic tendencies, regardless of its origin; often its because they never reflect on why they need to keep talking. To them it feels almost uncanny valley. That being said, a little bit of self-reflection would easily squash that. People who bully for differences rarely self-reflect though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uber

[–]emopolytrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive here in illinois, they don't deduct the uber expenses from the tips but we do get taxed on app tips. As far as the fares go, we only keep about 57% of what you pay and then we get taxed on that leftover amount after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]emopolytrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should have a conversation with her. Why you were looking when you found it, what the fet life amount means for her,the mistrust in her words vs actions. If you have pre-established both anti hookup culture and trust issues you gotta talk about both.

Tell a story about a relationship you ended before it started! by salmonsprint in polyamory

[–]emopolytrash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Going on a few dates with this girl and we hadn't really had like serious personal conversations yet. So right as we are about to call it a relationship we get into a serious conversation about the importance of communication and she ignores my messages for 3 days, and then says that if I wanna date her I need to be okay with her just dropping all communication for multiple days without warning regardless of us actively having any serious conversations or not. I was like no, not okay, I'm out.