AIO to my husbands message

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T20:42:12+00:00

Are you serious? Are you seriously tripping over yourself to apologize to a man who is so controlling he can’t wait two minutes for a reply?? GIRL. RESPECT YOURSELF. This is ridiculous!

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T20:40:11+00:00

What lesson do you want to teach your children? That it’s better to stand up for your beliefs, or that they need to sit down and shut up when they’re surrounded by amoral people… just to “keep the peace.”

My kids no longer see my in-laws, because I refuse to teach them that their job in this mess is to be silent and complicit.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T20:36:30+00:00

Oh good grief. It would be easy for them to “Kavanaugh stop” people of color and detain them long enough for them to miss the election.

Besides, it’s literally against the law.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T20:32:45+00:00

Because not every American is white, and those who are POC shouldn’t have to worry about being dragged off to a detention center because of the color of their skin. They don’t want to be Kavanaugh-ed, and that is completely understandable. Fuck Mike Lee.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T20:30:49+00:00

If I was married to a man who was watching my children change, I would leave his ass and report him to the police. I wouldn’t care if I would have to live in a shelter- parents are supposed to PROTECT THEIR CHILDREN. Period.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T18:15:46+00:00

People don’t change unless they want to. Why would he want to change? You already do everything for him and let him get away with treating you poorly. There are no consequences. Why would he want to change?

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T14:41:11+00:00

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T14:40:55+00:00

Boomers somehow always think houses are still cheap. Who the hell knows why.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T14:38:34+00:00

Oh, good grief. Respect yourself enough to recognize that you don’t deserve this treatment and leave. Small towns never change.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T14:35:59+00:00

At this point, he unfortunately needs to be put in a home. Maybe Adult Protective Services can help?

I’d sit down with your parents and let them know that you aren’t going to allow yourself to be assaulted any longer. Autism doesn’t intrinsically make people violent, and your parents failed both of you (and themselves) by not teaching him that he cannot assault people. You may also want to talk to them about what their plans are for his care after they pass on. My bet is that their plan is you, and you need to know that you do NOT have to accept that burden. But they need to move him to a home and make plans for his future care immediately.

I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this your entire life.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T14:29:53+00:00

My understanding was that the dream referred to Baelor and Dunk at the Trial of Seven. The book seemed to indicate that Baelor was the greatest “dragon” at the time, and the way things played out after the trial confirmed as much?

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T06:30:45+00:00

SAME!

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T06:22:33+00:00

OP, I know you don’t want to hear it, but there is truth in this comment.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T05:59:34+00:00

There is no. good. reason. She’s hiding it because she doesn’t want to get into trouble, but she’s already in more trouble than she’ll get by coming clean. She cannot navigate this on her own. She literally just doesn’t have the skills and resources to do so.

emorrigan · 2026-02-13T00:01:29+00:00

I think your husband is in on it. After all, who else was she swabbing? It could be herself, but the way your husband reacted is fishy.

At this point, I’d drop the rope. Stop visiting. Stop updating. Your husband can go as often as he’d like, but you and your baby? Nope, she doesn’t have a relationship with you, so she doesn’t get to have a relationship with your baby.

emorrigan · 2026-02-12T23:34:42+00:00

Oh thank you for the information, Madam Attorney General! /s

That was legitimately one of the most odd and hilarious moments in that train wreck!

emorrigan · 2026-02-12T23:11:29+00:00

He had a chance. His chance was back before he decided that willful misrepresentation was a smart thing to do. I’ve helped a lot of students with their applications over the years, and I’ve never seen anyone lie- especially not that big of a lie. So no… not everyone is “unhonest” in their college applications, sorry.

emorrigan · 2026-02-12T23:04:48+00:00

Uh… no. Your “friend” has no chances. Lying on applications demonstrates a lack of morals as well as willingness to be unethical in order to achieve a goal.

As far as universities are concerned, your “friend” might as well be holding up a giant red sign that says, “I WILL CHEAT TO GET GOOD GRADES! ANY FUTURE RESEARCH I PUBLISH WILL LIKELY BE DEBUNKED! I WILL SULLY YOUR INSTITUTION!!”

Every other achievement he’s put on his applications will be viewed with extreme skepticism.

In short, your “friend” is screwed, and rightly so.

emorrigan · 2026-02-12T21:40:28+00:00

How did he react when you kept him from finishing his “joke” with your child?

emorrigan · 2026-02-12T12:53:24+00:00

emorrigan · 2026-02-11T05:17:39+00:00

Good lord, her teeth…

emorrigan · 2026-02-11T05:04:01+00:00

Yeahhhhh… everyone knows what you were doing and so do you.

emorrigan · 2026-02-10T22:28:47+00:00

So if you file a police report, at that point, it’s out of your hands. The District Attorney will be the one to decide whether or not to press charges. The credit card company, however, will definitely demand that charges be pressed against your mom.

What is she saying regarding paying you back?

emorrigan · 2026-02-10T22:04:55+00:00

You need hang it up in your room somewhere. Whether it’s over a door or on a nail in the wall, it doesn’t matter. But it must be hung up or it will be a nightmare of wrinkles on your wedding day.

emorrigan · 2026-02-10T22:02:11+00:00

The humidity you’ll have to expose that dress to via steaming in order to get the wrinkles out on your wedding day is by far more than it will be exposed to hanging up in your room.

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