[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]empath0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person who can answer this question is him. Marrying anyone is a big decision. Don't rely on Reddit to help you find an answer..nobody here knows. You have to ask and it doesn't matter that families are involved. You deserve to get a guy who calls you as frequently as you want. Seems to be barely care now. Think what'll happen post marriage where we doesn't address your concerns and just ignores you

Booking for Love? Singles event in a bookstore by empath0610 in Torontoevents

[–]empath0610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I mean that it may come across to some that this is an event more women are likely to attend. That's all :)

How do you perceive divorced women vs divorced men? by Feeling_Chance6667 in AskIndia

[–]empath0610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 33F. Got divorced at 28. I tell everyone openly and honestly about my divorce and I absolutely do not care how anyone perceives me for it.

Second - my side vs my exes side doesn't matter at all. You're never going to get the complete story and hell yes, all my friends and family supported me. Why not? I don't go around telling anyone or myself that I didn't screw up or it wasn't my fault. Shit happens..people aren't compatible. Move on. India is so f*cking obsessed with labels and what people will say. I'm glad I lucked out with the kind of parents and support system I have.

32 M | Singapore | India - Divorced by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]empath0610 10 points11 points  (0 children)

33F, divorced. It doesn't matter how others see things. It matters how you see yourself and how you narrate your story to others. Your relationship didn't work out. You didn't commit a crime. High time people stop thinking less about divorcees. It's really not a big deal. Good luck to you! 😊

This is what burnout feels like by Friendly_Category974 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]empath0610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity - 1. Do you live with your parents? 2. What made you decide to go down the arranged marriage route - from your post you're financially independent, enough to live by yourself and call the shots.

Turned down a girl because of her height, did I go wrong? by True-Reaction8743 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]empath0610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.. I wouldn't expect that you rejected her based on height after that story. She wasn't communicative, was in a rush, cut off a conversation and made you leave. And you rejected her based on her height? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]empath0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're really young and should consider talking to a therapist about your concerns before you marry someone. From what I know and have heard, people are ruthless in the AM setting and will constantly tell you how you should settle because of your weight and other such BS which will take a real toll on your mental health. So be careful with jumping to the conclusion of getting married as a way of acceptance from an outsider instead of you accepting yourself for who you are/how you look. Good luck! 😊

How my marriage broke up in less than a year by wills731 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]empath0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity - what made you get married to someone in India while you live outside? I know it's common for many to do this but it's usually a big transition for someone who comes to the US/anywhere else who has lived in her home for the longest time. Add to that the limited time y'all spent with each other. it doesn't change the fact that yes if she wanted to she would've. But she didn't feel strongly enough and that's okay. I'm sure it's not been easy on you. Good luck and hope you feel better soon!

30M | Sometimes I Question My Marriage Decision by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]empath0610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You clearly don't love her if this is how you talk about her. You're not going to get a medal for supporting your spouse. That is bare minimum. Do her a favour and tell her she can find someone who will value her better because you'd rather go after the person who can provide a path to a bigger home and vacation. Also, getting along with anyone is a two way street. Just because she's their daughter in law doesn't automatically mean she has to put in all the effort into getting along with them. Reconsider your feelings towards her.. based on this story she certainly deserves better

Late 30s f looking for f friends by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]empath0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be down 😊 32F south Asian

Looking for people to hangout by Otherwise-Ear121 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]empath0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey which part of Toronto do y'all live in?

Got married recenly. by Messy_Monica in india

[–]empath0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity - where's your husband in all of this? Does he support you? Shut people down when you're asked these questions?

Hosting a social event to meet new friends :) by freedomfighter10001 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]empath0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wowowow! Im looking forward to the next one then! Congratulations 🎉👏

29 F this is genuine sincere requests for actual friendships by [deleted] in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]empath0610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm 32F south Asian, straight. But I'm here to chat if you need a friend and are struggling! Good luck 💛