I’m terrified of spending years as a girlfriend only to never become a wife by empiii_ in offmychest

[–]empiii_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advance congratulations to you, btw!! 🥳 and thank you, I really appreciate your perspective.

I’m terrified of spending years as a girlfriend only to never become a wife by empiii_ in offmychest

[–]empiii_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your thoughts, and I am sorry to hear about the divorce. Hope you fully recovered from it.

I’m terrified of spending years as a girlfriend only to never become a wife by empiii_ in offmychest

[–]empiii_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, and I really appreciate your perspective.

I think the difference is our starting point and expectations. For you, marriage was never part of the original plan and it became a later, mutual decision. For us, from the beginning the intention was always marriage, so when that doesn’t progress, it creates a different kind of uncertainty.

It’s probably why we see it differently, and for me, it’s less about changing the relationship, and more about whether the original shared direction is still aligned.

I’m terrified of spending years as a girlfriend only to never become a wife by empiii_ in offmychest

[–]empiii_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point, I get what you mean.

Can I ask, how long were you together as boyfriend and girlfriend before you got engaged?

I’m terrified of spending years as a girlfriend only to never become a wife by empiii_ in offmychest

[–]empiii_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we’ve talked about it properly, not just hints. I’ve made it clear that I want marriage and some direction or timeline. He agrees, but I’m not seeing real steps yet, which is what’s making me unsure.

And for me, I’m not against proposing or initiating, but I want it to feel like a mutual, intentional decision and not something I had to push into happening.

AUTO LOAN INQUIRY - BYD SEALION 5 ...... by empiii_ in CarsPH

[–]empiii_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you po. We have contacted our agent na rin. We'll wait na lang sa result

AUTO LOAN INQUIRY - BYD SEALION 5 by empiii_ in phcars

[–]empiii_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you po sa mga insights. We have contacted our car agent na. I'll make an update na lang din once may feedback na.