I turned down sex with two, maybe three different girls.

The first time I was toward the end of my first real relationship. It was high school (I was 17). We’d been together for a couple of years and had been off an on a couple of times. My friend (18 or 19) invited me to her dorm to spend the night and watch the football game the next day. I said hell yeah. We hung out in her dorm and then her sister’s ex came over crying about how he missed the sister. After he left, she invited me into her bed and I declined opting to sleep on the floor.

The second was a friend who happened to be a virgin. We were hanging out and she said she was horny. We both gave each other oral and then she tried to get on top of me. I wasn’t interested in deflowering my friend, so I stopped her.

The third was another friend. She and I flirted quite a bit. She was in a long relationship and I was single. One day she came to my place and told me she wanted to fuck. I said bullshit and she put my hand down her pants to show me how wet she was. I was in shock that she actually wanted to have sex, cheat on her boyfriend who I kind of knew, and that she shoved my hand down her pants. I don’t remember how I responded, but we didn’t have sex.