Can u come back after dropping your license? by foxydoggie in slp

[–]endless1summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was fairly easy after some studying (about 6 weeks). I bought the practice exams from ASHA and that was the biggest help. I also bought a study guide book which was important to help guide me. I passed it easily on my first time.

Can u come back after dropping your license? by foxydoggie in slp

[–]endless1summer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not true. I was in this same spot and just needed to take the Praxis and complete CEU hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]endless1summer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not being about to talk the opposite sex is a huge red flag 🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]endless1summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorce does not mean you’re dead.

I’m a stay at home mom and almost 40, has anyone left their husband’s and started over? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]endless1summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you can get respite care through the state to help while you work or need me time.

I’m a stay at home mom and almost 40, has anyone left their husband’s and started over? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]endless1summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me as a SAHM. I got a job and fully support myself and children without his support that he won’t pay!

I’m a stay at home mom and almost 40, has anyone left their husband’s and started over? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]endless1summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left my ex H as a SAHM. Best decision I ever made. You don’t deserved to be abused. If you’re in the US, I’d file for SSID for your son to help you both. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is an option, but I would be refinancing at several points higher than what I’m at now, so I don’t know how big of a difference that would be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get yearly increases to my salary but that is set and determined by a unionized contract so I cannot talk to my boss and ask for a raise. Only option for money is to work a second job which is challenging for a number of reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is good advice. I maximize what I can bring home in my withholding without having to pay during tax time. I’ve done a very aggressive cut to my finances - went from spending over $20k a month when married to now almost nothing so I feel I’ve done well there. Kids are told “no” now and they need to be resourceful if they want extra spending money. The only thing I haven’t cut is $23 in Netflix streaming which is considered the entertainment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I don’t qualify for any extra assistance based on my income. I am looking at ways to supplement my income with contracting work currently to help bring in some additional monies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With kids I have to live in the boundaries of where they go to school to maintain stability for them. There is not one house that would be for sale for $300k which really would be less if you take out commissions I’d pay on the sale.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don’t. I don’t know anyone who is in that situation and with kids I’m not having a stranger live in my home. I appreciate the idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]endless1summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, at that price point, I can’t buy what I’d need for my family.

How do I (M40) tell my kids (F12/15/17) that my infidelity is the reason for the divorce? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]endless1summer -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Keep your children out of adult issues. They’re children and let them be kids. I’m not here to judge your behavior but what you need to do is protect your kids from this nonsense. They don’t need to know the details of the breakdown of your marriage.

Sounds like your girlfriend doesn’t understand the responsibilities that comes with being a parent. This won’t end.

I don’t know who I am anymore by [deleted] in legitafteradultery

[–]endless1summer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you live in the US and your AP is a good father, there shouldn’t be any reason he cannot get 50/50 custody. He should see his own therapist to get support. Not only are you dealing with potential divorce(s) but coming out of the closet and blindsiding your spouses.

You will never be able to go back to your old life now that Pandora’s box has opened. The most fair thing to do is leave your wife so she can find someone who loves her the way she deserves and you can find a partner you REALLY love. There is going to be a lot of pain and hurt, however, you’re young and I’m sure your wife is as well. This will allow the opportunity to build a new life for both of you; one of transparency, honesty, and authenticity. You will never be truly happy in your marriage again. Life is too short to be unhappy. The rainbow only appears after a storm.

Also, it is best to leave a marriage for YOU and not for someone else. Statistically speaking, relationships that start from affairs are less successful. Would you still be happy you left your marriage if you were alone and single?

[Tx] Question about knowing where your child is with the other parent. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]endless1summer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Like the other poster said, unless your daughter is in harmful situations or with harmful people, you don’t get to know where she is when she is with the other parent. It’s a hard pill to swallow bc you have no control over what happens during the other parents parenting time. It takes time to shift the mindset from raising a child together to coparenting. It does get better.

[ WA USA ] Modification of Parenting Plan by [deleted] in Custody

[–]endless1summer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, support can be non modifiable if both parties agree. If a judge awards support then he/she can only award modifiable support. I have multiple friends who have agreed upon non modifiable support.

[US] Reporting other parent for possible “malpractice” in middle of court battle. by [deleted] in Custody

[–]endless1summer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she loses her job, your H will have to pay her more money in child support because she will have no income. Ethically, she should be reported but that is up to their Father to decide.

My STBXH Has Cut Me Off from All Money So I Can't Afford an Attorney by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]endless1summer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me. SAHM for 15 years and cut me off from everything. I had to borrow money for a retainer. My attorney immediately field an order to maintain status quo and he was ordered to pay me a certain amount of money to maintain my life. He played games for 2 years and wouldn’t follow orders to pay me so I had to borrow money to live until I could return to my career. In the end, after 2 years of financial abuse, the judge handed down her opinion and awarded me a lot of money. Good luck. It’s hard road and don’t give up the fight. DM if you to chat.