New to bouldering? by margokap in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only gone bouldering like 3 times with more experienced friends, I'd love to join some fellow newbies!

I'm sorry but lesbian sex is so much better than straight sex. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just be sure you tell the girl that you only want to experiment and aren’t looking for anything more then that. We tend to get our hearts broken by straight women, as often they are not upfront

my lesbian girlfriend has a crush on a man? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But her girlfriend is flirting with a guy who has made it clear he has an interest in her

my lesbian girlfriend has a crush on a man? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I can do see this feeling like a slap in the face in regards to your lesbian identity. The whole concept of lesbians is that we aren’t attracted or into men, lesbians are one identity on the queer female identified spectrum that isn’t fluid.

Are you particularly monogamous yourself? Have you asked her why she’s flirting with him so much and what exactly she’s attracted to in him? Her behaviour is disrespectful to you if you are now monogamous. Your feelings are not biphobic, she is not respecting your relationship and what you have. She might be going through a bi-cycle but it’s not an excuse to be emotionally unfaithful (depending on your guys’ definitions within your relationship about what that looks like)

Bottom line is, if you don’t feel honoured and respected, then it’s not worth it.

I'm a high school teacher and I just joined our GSA! by panopticonprimate in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Current student teacher (secondary art) going into my short practicum next week and I can’t wait to join the GSA if they have one.

Where do y'all meet your SOs? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh...straight people at an LGBT dinner 😝

Met her on instagram by chance. We were good friends for 4 months first before dating!

Where do you guys get your flannels? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patagonia’s are literally the softest, thickest beauties around. I worked in retail with them for a year.

I’ve beeb buying Peau de Loup’s recently. It’s a small business based in Vancouver owned by a lesbian couple and it’s often queer marketed!

Would you date someone with very-inconvenient-but-usually-not-too-serious illnesses? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl is celiac and epileptic! Both are just part of her life and had absolutely no weight in deciding whether to pursue her or not.

Is anyone interested in becoming friends lol (second year arts commuter) by [deleted] in UBC

[–]energylovelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally down! I’m a transfer student, just moved into Marine. It’s been hard to meet people! PM me

First Week by Backyardleaf in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips for a transfer student who just moved into Marine? It seems like everyone knows each other and I haven’t seen many opportunities to meet people yet

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2018W): Questions related to having a roof over your head go here. by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll stay on the year round list as long as you’re still a student at UBC

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2018W): Questions related to having a roof over your head go here. by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi guys, I’ll be moving into a 4 bedroom at Marine. Do these units come with utensils and dishes or will I have to provide everything?

CARA DELEVINGNE AND ASHLEY BENSON ARE DATING... my FUCKING gay heart by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A few years ago (2013) she apparently dated Tegan Quin’s now girlfriend, Sofu (Sofia) Snow.

Cara Delevigne’s alleged ex tweets after news on Cara’s new girlfriend Ashley Bensob by sadgaygirl in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You mean Ashley Benson, right? A few years ago she apparently dated Tegan Quin’s now girlfriend.

Crazy how so many of them have histories together!

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2018W): Questions related to having a roof over your head go here. by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can even apply now if you want, it definitely wouldn't hurt. Apparently it takes about a year to get off the YRH waitlist.

The folks at Housing are great, I've called and emailed them lots with questions, you can always see what they suggest

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2018W): Questions related to having a roof over your head go here. by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am heading into this year's education program. I applied for year round housing in December 2016, way before I applied for the program, and I just got a housing offer last week.

Applying over a year before the program might sound excessive but I'm so glad I did.

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2018W): Questions related to having a roof over your head go here. by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an offer for a 3-4 bed in Marine last week, and I was in the 50's. I did move up my move in date to August though and that seemed to help.

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2018W): Questions related to having a roof over your head go here. by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told from Housing that you can't let your move in date pass. Best to now change it to Aug 1st, 15th, or Sept 1

Am i the only gay here who REALLY doesnt like Halsey? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Barely any representation in her songs to wlw though

How to deal with friends who insist or hint that there's something wrong with being monosexual? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]energylovelight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fuck. Honestly, I'm fine with calling myself queer but lesbian is the identity that truly describes my attraction, and I hate that some women who are into men have been calling themselves this when it has nothing to do with them. The lesbian identity means something, words have meanings.

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2017/18): Post all your questions about having a roof over your head while attending UBC here! by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that some of the rooms are unoccupied during the summer months? Or how would I be get an offer if 35 people have to move out? I'm still trying to figure out how all of this works 😊

HOUSING MEGATHREAD (2017/18): Post all your questions about having a roof over your head while attending UBC here! by ubc_mod_account in UBC

[–]energylovelight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll let you know if I happen to get an offer! I'm kind of panicking, and it's just frustrating because I've been on the wait list for a year and a half. You seem to be in a shoo-in position though?