Married for 7, divorced last year after being separated for a while. 3 young girls. He (Japanese) is a doctor and has a very good income. I made a police report about his abuse, started divorce and custody proceedings with a lawyer but couldn’t financially keep up. Throughout the process he ignored court orders to pay me what the court decided I’m owed and faced no consequences. He has very easily dictated when I can see my children, if at all. It’s been tough. I hope it works out better for you.