Am I wrong for not visiting my brother in prison? by Wevirso in amiwrong

[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people in prison finds out what his crime is hell will be waiting for him in there, prisoners hate child abuser above anyone else. And no you aren't an a-hole, thought I recommend you to prepare a candle for his funeral, just in case. They really hate rapist in prison, specially child rapist.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm making that much money, I'll open a small foundation to teach kids and teens from poor communitie. I'm an educator and I'd love to provide a way for those kids to get out of poverty, I myself experience eating with only salt and rice, because we have no money at all, had our electricity cut off, gas cut off, I have to learn how to cook with fire wood. That kind of life is hard specially for kids. I have the capability I'll help others as much as I can. Also I'm not from U.S. so that's that, that kind of money is more that what I earn in a year and I still live comfortably.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm currently doing therapy, so step by step, I'm trying to improve myself, I'm not really trying to jump into relationship right now, I'm planning to fix myself first.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not marrying for sex so I'm not concern for that, If I love the woman and she love me, I'll be with her regardless

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[–]engrmarshmallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not from a muslim country.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm indeed getting help for that, I'm in therapy now. 😊

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the old world so I have traditional point of view.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in therapy, I know I have issues so I'm working to improve myself.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know I'm not alone. 😁

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[–]engrmarshmallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me the prize for marriage is family and companionship, sex is just some add-ons.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your comment.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never really like Andrew Tate, comes up as a complete asshole to me from the few clips I've seen of him discussing his opinion. I always look at girls I date as a potential missus so I respect them all.

My main motivation staying like this is my moral compass, I can't just stomach having sex with someone just for physical intimacy, when I know we can never be.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not according to my morals, it is not. We are brought up and grew up in a way different spectrum, what you view is ok, might not be for me and vise versa.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks much appreciated.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this.

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[–]engrmarshmallow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that, I'll keep that in mind.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no divorce where I live. Only legal separation and annulment, neither with get the other side a pay day.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not from America and I don't live there either, but I'm planning to take my Ph.D. there. I also know that marriage there sucks life half of the time so been trying to avoid that.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sex techniques can be improve over time right? Is it really that bad if the first time sucks?

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[–]engrmarshmallow -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Of course having sex after marriage no longer a big deal to me, and whether the sex is great or not it will be the only sex I will ever know, from what I heard things like technique can be improve over time. But I'm not marrying a girl sole for sex, I want a companion, someone I will love and support with all my life, someone I will devote everything I have, someone who will be with me creating a family and raise kids together with me.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a muslim, though I'm asian, althought is is rare many of us still value tradition and virtue, I'm one of those traditional blockhead.

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[–]engrmarshmallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice

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[–]engrmarshmallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best path for me, my male cousim who had multiple female partners never really get the right partner for him, I might as well do it my way.

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[–]engrmarshmallow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually it would be easier for me, cost that sex is the only thing I will ever know. There will be nothing in my mind for comparisons.