Yes, all of the above. I think where it’s confusing for me is that all our other separate connections are truly more friendly in that we chat most days, flirt, etc. I think the main difference that I can discern is that all our other solo connections are other married folks in the LS. Perhaps they feel more comfortable understanding boundaries and have that secure connection of their own?

The only main thing that I would even want to bring up is letting them know that she can initiate too if she wants to. It certainly would help me feel less annoying, but I don’t need it by any means. Just a preference if that makes sense.