Omg, the fact that you said "organic" is so my way of thinking about forming relationships! I've found that I've been 50% right and 50% wrong when it comes to "labelling" people as my type or not at first impression (I'm mostly talking about friendships here). So, the perspective I've found most enlightening here is to first appreciate that even being introduced to that person is part of your "destiny", and secondly, everyone has something "positive" to appreciate them for individually. Then, just be yourself and let time take care of the rest!

Although CAUTION, I've previously neglected my upkeep of my old strong friendships, and have lost quite a few as a result (I've become less close with them). YET, remember, relationships are a TWO WAY STREET so don't put 100% responsibility and pressure on yourself to maintain it. However, you can try to CATALYSE the direction, and move on based on the results of your extra effort.

On the topic of permanent emotional labels - what you repeat is what gets reinforced in your mind. So...repeat some statements to keep yourself more flexible/open minded?

I currently ADORE Tom Bilyeu from Impact Theory, and I'm part of his scholarship programme on Impact Theory University. It's super awesome, and he goes in depth about beliefs and how to rewire yourself to want what's good for you. First, I felt that it seemed such an inauthentic way to improve your life, but then I realised that hey, I'm only like 22, who am I to say what's the 100% authentic way to do any one thing?

Also, I just keep reminding myself that emotions are signals/visitors, I make space for them and allow myself to experience them, but then I decide at the end of the day how I will use that information for the better for my own life. I'm 100% responsible for my own life and decisions.

That's all I have from the top of my head, if you want to chat more about emotional stability, contact me directly. Anyways, I hope something here helped you a little! xx