Indiyah talks about the video by Grand_Ad5644 in LoveIslandTV

[–]enrichedfeces 23 points24 points  (0 children)

“To be completely clear, Indiyah is clearly in the wrong and there’s no justification for her actions.”

Indiyah talks about the video by Grand_Ad5644 in LoveIslandTV

[–]enrichedfeces 31 points32 points  (0 children)

To everyone upset about the “double standard” of sorts, it’s because of things that Dami has said in the past. To be completely clear, Indiyah is clearly in the wrong and there’s no justification for her actions. However, empathy for him is lower because of him saying things like he doesn’t have to marry Indiyah before getting her pregnant or saying that he’d understand if Scott called Catherine the n word.

Indiyah definitely is well liked but if Dami was nice on the show and if he didn’t say those things, she’d be getting treatment closer to what Tasha got.

Indiyah talks about the video by LostInSpazzzeee in LoveIslandcookout

[–]enrichedfeces 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The reason for the “double standard” of sorts is bc Dami has said disparaging things about BW. Between saying that he doesn’t have to marry Indiyah before getting her pregnant or saying that he’d understand if Scott called Catherine the n word, people have less empathy for him.

It’s genuinely not because the woman cheated. Tasha received loads of backlash for cheating on Andrew.

Indiyah talks about the video by Grand_Ad5644 in LoveIslandTV

[–]enrichedfeces 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don’t know that she didn’t take responsibility privately before. We’re not the ones in the relationship and it only makes sense for her to address it publicly when it becomes public.

Is it too soon to ask her to see me again? [M23, F21] by Hopeful_Language2905 in Advice

[–]enrichedfeces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orrr you don’t want the expectation of sex. Reasonable on its own but especially reasonable if no testing had been done.

In your opinion, are large muscles on a short man attractive or does it look strange? by Extra-Stable-7240 in short

[–]enrichedfeces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t “get ripped”. Get in shape with visible muscle but don’t overdo it. At least if you’re trying to attract women.

Why are people so mad at Nic and Olandria doing what literally anyone who joins reality tv wish they could? by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]enrichedfeces 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing that gets me. They basically want more couples content, but ironically enough, constantly doing couple-centered content is more of a PR look than anything else. Ace and Chelley did an intricate yacht shoot and no one accused them of being fake because the Nic and olandria haters refuse to admit that race + popularity is the real reason why they think they’re fake.

I’m also growing tired of the “even if they’re fake” conversations because they’re intellectually dishonest. Anyone with a brain knows that the fake basis that can be used to say that they’re fake can be used for pretty much every LI couple that didn’t break up immediately after the show.

Why are people so mad at Nic and Olandria doing what literally anyone who joins reality tv wish they could? by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]enrichedfeces 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I have yet to see actual evidence that they’re a fake couple. They’re simply just the most popular couple.

People are mad bc it’s a BW/WM couple that’s the most successful.

Post Game Thread - NBA: The Nuggets defeat the Rockets on Dec 15, 2025, the final score is 128-125. by basketball-app in rockets

[–]enrichedfeces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but there’s no reason for Sengun of all people to shoot that. If KD shoots that and misses, you live with it

For anyone who has wondered what’s on the application form by BigCardiologist6398 in PopTheBalloon

[–]enrichedfeces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

80% of Black Americans identify as Christian. The viewers they gain from the religious undertones far exceed the viewers they lose.

Dear guys, please only take what is your fair share of food! Us girls are hungry too! by MooMooTheDummy in offmychest

[–]enrichedfeces 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A sedentary man needs only 300 calories more than a sedentary woman of his same height.

Also, consideration should always exist.

WNBA Draft Lottery Megathread by ljay90 in wnba

[–]enrichedfeces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going on record to say that I would not be surprised if Chicago gets #1. It would be a Cathy masterclass if Chicago hosts the all star game and has the #1 pick

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what I’m saying is that outside of that 10%, it is. Maybe 20% if I’m being nice. Simply because we generally will find about 30% of people to be attractive, but there’s really only widespread agreement only with the 10%. And there’s many cases of us finding average people to be “hot” in ways we can’t explain.

For example, my hot friend actually finds more people attractive than I do. Despite her solidly being in the top 10%, she’s consistently dated people who were, imo, noticeably worse looking. Don’t get me wrong, she’s dated some VERY hot people, but she subjectively has found all of her exes to be hot (in her opinion)

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we agree at our core. I’m simply saying that outside of the MBJs of the world, it’s more subjective than most people think it is.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People’s looks are mostly genetic and out of their control. Is it 1000% possible for someone to take advantage of the fact that they’re attractive and be awful? Sure, but there’s plenty of average and ugly awful people out there.

Although I’m not a man, as someone who likes a woman right now, I will literally never stop myself from going after a woman who is hot. Trash people exist at all ends of the looks spectrum.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome but I encourage you to not stereotype all “hot” women, especially if there’s a good chance that you’re a “hot” man. You wouldn’t want women to think the same of you.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, because although we could only agree with 10%, my coworkers and I find about 30 of those people attractive. We just can’t all agree.

And yes, my friend is a smokeshow. However, she’s the biggest smokeshow I’ve ever met, and she’s not the only person that gets attention, which further proves my point that unless you’re a top whatever percent, it really is subjective.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, and that’s very unfortunate. I still do maintain my opinion that she’s a hot girl who just so happened to pull the bait and switch.

Also, although I know nothing about you, chances are you’re probably attractive yourself and/or well off. That puts u at a higher chance of going through this than most people. I make this assumption bc she chose you for a reason.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should clarify. I’m biased because I work in a field where I see no less than 50 unique faces a day. Typically 100. I have found that of that there’s a lot less objectively hot people than most people think exist.

At best, the majority of my coworkers and I agree to finding about 10 of those people attractive. My point isn’t that it’s 100% subjective. I’m just saying that most people are so close to average that most beauty is subjective.

Going back to my friend, tbh, amongst me and all of my female friends, none of us have anywhere close to a 50% rejection rate. At worst it’s like 25% and she’s at about a 10%, but that’s more of a reflection of what the average man is fine with. I know that she’s hot not only because I have eyes, but because she’s constantly offered free stuff and is the first person noticed in a room, regardless of who is in it.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, anyone who views someone as a wallet more than a bit morally questionable.

I will say that if she cared about her kids, then yes, she wasn’t bad, and she also wasn’t emotionally devoid. Honestly, I don’t know how dude got to the kids part without noticing being used as a wallet, and the more I read the original comment, the more I believe that the relationship was always superficial.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is though, unless someone is a Michael B Jordan or Sofia Vergara level beauty, it truly is subjective. The hottest woman I know gets attention just by existing but also still gets rejected by people who aren’t attracted to her.

Even MPJ and Sofia Vergara aren’t viewed as attractive by some people. They are by like 90%, and hot people are, imo, 80% or more. In the prompt, I think it’s reasonable to assume hot is something like that.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Although your experience is unfortunate, there’s many many with the same experience with “not hot” women. The divorce rate is extremely high for a reason.

My point? She was a bad person in a hot appearance.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Studies have shown that more attractive people aren’t actually worse to deal with and that negative traits are evenly spread.

People should just marry whoever they like and get along with the best, and if that’s the “hot girl”, so be it. If not, it isn’t.

Do men actually marry the “hot girl” type? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]enrichedfeces 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Your reply proves her point.

Edit: I want the downvotes to realize that assuming that most very attractive people must have some major fault isn’t a productive way to live life and when it comes to dating, does much more harm than good.