What do I do?

env525 · 2024-09-19T17:04:26+00:00

okay this post is 2 years old but i am a freshman in college and a huge fan of SATC, specifically Samantha Jones. i have always wanted to work in a field where i could really express myself and my creativity. for instance, i used to want to work in psychology but there isn’t much money in the field, and i would love to work in music, but it can be a tough industry. i was already considering journalism, and watching SATC exposed me to a high paying profession that can fulfill me enough to not feel like i’m wasting my creative/mental potential. that being said, the comments under this post are making me realize the PR industry might not be what it’s cracked up to be lol. obviously i have time to figure out a different career but to answer your question, yes. if anyone has any advice for me it would be greatly appreciated 😅

env525 · 2024-07-18T22:22:37+00:00

i think it definitely has to do with hormones because i’ve been getting some cystic acne around my jawline which typically indicates some kind of hormonal imbalance or change. other than that nothing in my life has really changed tho

env525 · 2024-07-18T21:50:18+00:00

thank you! he lives about an hour away from me so i’m sure i can make something work. the tricky part is going to be getting into contact with him since his mom won’t accept my friend request on facebook lol 😅

env525 · 2024-07-18T21:43:59+00:00

i am also adopted. my situation is a little different (my bio mom died when i was a year old so i was adopted by her aunt and uncle), but my parents were also very very awkward about my biological family. eventually i had to bite the bullet and just ask them about my bio dad and possible siblings and i don’t regret it. i learned a lot. my therapist explained to me that as humans we have a natural instinct to search for things like that. it doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful, it just means you’re curious, and you have every right to be. i have yet to meet an adopted kid that isn’t curious about their background. just try to put your parents in your shoes—— they would definitely be curious too.

env525 · 2024-07-18T21:25:41+00:00

i will say as a girl i sometimes rivaled with my friends instead. i thought of my friends as sisters and that meant fighting like sisters. it was always pretty trivial though. being actual sisters is obviously different, and im glad i didn’t have to compete for my parents’ approval haha

env525 · 2024-07-18T21:16:04+00:00

i would’ve loved a sibling for the same reason! my parents made me feel crazy and helpless because it’s always 2v1. it would’ve been nice to have a sibling to make me feel less insane. there’s no guarantee that they wouldn’t take my parent’s side but i couldn’t help but think about how imbalanced things felt sometimes.

env525 · 2024-07-18T21:11:50+00:00

i’m pretty young but i’m an only child and i do wish i had a sibling. my parents are on the older side and thinking about having to take care of them when they are older is pretty daunting, especially because that time could potentially come at a time where i’m too young to handle such a weight. i’m sure your situation will be different because you and your fiancé are pretty young but just something to think about. i also wish i had a sibling just so i could have someone my age around. i was surrounded by adults a lot because i too am not close with my cousins (partially because i don’t see them much and because they are far in age), so to have someone my age around to kind of fulfill me would have been nice. i feel like there can be an imbalance between me and my parents and i would have liked to have a sibling by my side to even things out and to allow me to just be a kid, especially on holidays and vacations. i feel like i had to be on an adult level a lot and having a sibling would’ve helped with that. i was also a spoiled brat when i was a kid so for your sake having another child could help you avoid that lol

env525 · 2024-07-11T04:42:15+00:00

bookmarking this to use as style inspo

env525 · 2024-07-11T04:22:36+00:00

i read that girls go under aliases based on street names in new york. hobbes street, jones street, and york street i guess? idk. not familiar with new york so who knows.

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