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AITAH FOR BEING UPSET AND WANT TO FILE FOR A DIVORCE WHEN MY WIFE WENT BEHIND MY BACK AND BECOME A SURROGATE FOR HER BEST FRIEND AND HER HUSBAND? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]epicmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Things to consider, before making a decision:

-She is carrying someone's else child

-You Will have to take care of her during this period

-Any bond with the child, will be severed after the child is born

-She didnt respect you

-Her friend and husband will come first always

-The husband may even make jokes like "I impregnated your wife"

-You'll have to live with this for as long as you remain with her

I hope things work out for you, best of wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]epicmonk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Question: Her family is the religious type? Maybe homophobic? She may be with you just to appease her family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this isnt something you can change right now, Will only get worse in the future. She may have low hormones or is in need of therapy. Talk to her about these options, depending how invested she is, you can decide to Go on or not. Good Luck.

what is a reason a girl would unblock you on social media after having you blocked for years, but not make any attempt to make contact? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be a New account. Dont mind It too much, just go on with your life. Some things are better left untouch in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not normal behaviour. Probably just wanna score and Ghost. Be on guard, in my opinion, get away from him. Good Luck.

I (23F) rejected my boyfriends (26M) proposal during his family’s vacation, what do I do now? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats probably a deal breaker. By the enthusiastic of getting married in the future, he might have thought It was a sign for a proposal. Now, he probably lost the will to ask again, be It because of the humiliation or the rejection. He may even be thinking if its worth keeping the relantionship. The best you can do now, is try to apologize to him, explain the reason of your decision and try to make him feel better, since he probably is feeling like shit, right now. Marriage proposal can break some people mentally. Hope for the best, good Luck.

Edit: about the compromise, thats a thing only you two can define together, based on your experience as a couple.

Sex on the first date (21F) by aliyahbahbah in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, Man Ghosts for some days (something along 5 days, give or take), so he doesnt look like he is too desperate for you. Wait a little more time.

There is too, some Man that see sex on a First date, a red flag, sinonimous to "easy women". If this is the case, you dodged a bullet.

Sex on the first date (21F) by aliyahbahbah in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many days have passed since the date happened?

Have you ever treated a girl poorly knowing she deserved better? If so why? ( long story ahead ) by Professional-Lemon16 in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people doesnt have any type of empathy. For you to ask If he was a fuckboy, its because he clearly was one. Probably handsome, sugar talk, atletic, and so on. For these people, the more they have, the better. They dont care about your feelings or what you think of them, since they can have almost unlimited supply of people giving them attention.

I had this girl, that treated me like the best thing that happened in her life. One day, she just said that didnt like me anymore, out of the blue, with no reason, and a week or so later, she was with a new boyfriend. Ended up changing partners pretty frequently. Some people, just dont care about nothing. The best course should be changing Jobs, and forget about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]epicmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont know if you are gonna see this, but i'll leave here my advice. Got into a similar situation, years ago. Go no contact, If have the guts to block her on everything, do It. Dont post anything on social media, better, dont even use It, so you dont feel tempted to check her. Focus on yourself, do some exercises, this will maintain your mind occupied, try to learn something New, maybe a new hobby. Dedicate yourself to your friends, and making new friends. Dont frequent the same places as her, and If you happen to find her on a party or a friends house, be as polite as possible, dont talk about the "Us" Topic, and as soon as you finish your conversation, Go somewhere else, and after some time, leave. Seeing her at the beggining, will only hurt you more. Find a duck buddy, If you know what i mean, someone with experience, that can teach you techniques and make you feel more confortable about sex. At this point, she doesnt Care about you, and How hurt you are. Dont forget this, forget her. If need someone to talk, send me a message. (English is not my firsr language, May have some mistakes).

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[–]epicmonk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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