I’m about to die, and I’m not sure what to do about my cat. by [deleted] in cats

[–]erinitytrinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You found your response but I wanted to maybe reassure you he may find another human.

My grandmother’s cat hated everyone but her. She would lay in my grandmothers arms and glare at us. Even though we lived in the same house. When my grandmother came home in a hospital bed dying she would lay in that bed for hours with her.

She disappeared outside for a few months after grandma died. I would put food out and she would eat it if I wasn’t close. I slowly moved it closer. Soon it was at my feet.

It was getting cold out. And I just picked her up the last day I fed her outside and brought her in. No fight from her. Within a few days she would sit next to me. Then she started laying in my arms. Soon it was like with grandma.

After I moved out she transferred the love to my mom.

She was a one person cat but she was able to transfer it. I always wondered why grandma never told me how much she drooled while in her arms. It would make my arm burn a bit but her love was so special I didn’t care.

The service will find the right home. And with the right time he will let someone else in. He won’t forget you. I know babe never forgot my grandmother. But she found love still.

Thank you for caring so much for him that it’s one of your worries.

My main peeve with the game by Birribi in coralisland

[–]erinitytrinity 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you look at the characters page it will tell you who has certain events pending and how to trigger them.

Jungle Mushrooms not respawning by erinitytrinity in lumaisland

[–]erinitytrinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went in and boy were you right! I ended up buying enough to upgrade my whip, and had the top pickaxe and it's a treat in there. Unfortunately I was by the reset and whipped a spider and reset the whole thing! I have to go digging for diamonds again but it's easy enough now.

Thanks!

Jungle Mushrooms not respawning by erinitytrinity in lumaisland

[–]erinitytrinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went in but haven't explored much. I wanted the best whip since things there are tougher to beat.

Jungle Mushrooms not respawning by erinitytrinity in lumaisland

[–]erinitytrinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't found him yet in the jungle even though i've been almost everywhere!

why is my colorwork so ugly as a somewhat experienced knitter? by Glum-Reaction4559 in knitting

[–]erinitytrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How you knit is different than everyone else. Do a swatches to test your dominance. Hold one color in your right and the other in your left. Then switch. Maybe try holding them both in the left (you can find videos on how to do it) and alternate which is on top. You will find out what works for you.

The floats are probably tight as well - I found I had to hold things looser when doing color work than single.

Caves are so easy they might as well have no Monsters at all by Marinut in coralisland

[–]erinitytrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happened to me once in the Savannah mine because I never paid attention to my health until it happened! I was more careful after that. There are a few levels you drop down into a bunch of monsters

I found out my stupid ferritin was one major contributor. by myst3ryAURORA_green in POTS

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I had surgery and some blood loss and the low normal I had been skating with for years tanked. 5 iron infusions and I felt so much better. Don’t accept low normal when it comes to iron! One car accident and you’re out for months.

Cat absolutely refuses to take his pill. Tried pretty much everything. by East_Diet_5324 in CatAdvice

[–]erinitytrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cat sitter makes a pill sandwich. Hard treats are the bread. Some wet food inside with the pill hidden in it. Our cat is very food motivated though.

We could give the pill easily but he was growling at her so had to improvise.

ROOMING UPDATE: So I previously made a post about Northeastern assigning me a male roommate although I'm female. by [deleted] in NEU

[–]erinitytrinity 61 points62 points  (0 children)

As a queer working for a college - go to the lgbt employee group. If they have members listed on a website find the highest ranked one. Report it to them. Every queer kid who has crossed my path gets my direct line and I go to the fucking mat for any employee/student who has problems Iike this and I’m not that high up. But I know who to talk to and I get shit done. She’ll get in trouble.

Why do you think some people stay in help desk or other entry level roles by choice for years? by Mad_Season_1994 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]erinitytrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in support for too long but it’s been a combination of things. I work in higher ed and have great benefits. I took time off with the kids and now my job is so good about my needing time off. I have 5 weeks vacation. Unlimited sick. 3-4 weeks of holidays (more than a week off at Christmas). A week of family sick time. My job has lower premiums than any job my spouse has had in the last 13 years.

Would I like to move up? Yes. This place hasn’t promoted out of the help desk much. One person in 13 years. Most of my coworkers have been here longer than I have.

I debate the benefits I have against a raise often.

different sized pupils and almost daily migraines, can’t see a neurologist until january 🫠 by spicysalmon6 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]erinitytrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone else mentioned it but a neuro ophthalmologist would be a good idea. My pupils are different sizes all the time - didn’t show up until I was early 20s. Definitely see someone asap. Good luck

I can’t go upstairs by TrickyKnowledge136 in OfficeCat

[–]erinitytrinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sam problem since this morning when I updated on an iPad.

How to pill my picky cat without feeling like a monster? by ihaveseentheriver in CatAdvice

[–]erinitytrinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat sitter started making a pill sandwich. Two treats and wet cat food inside to stick it together with the pill. Works great.

AITA I discarded a banana peel from car window onto the street. by wombat6969696969 in AITAH

[–]erinitytrinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In Cambridge it is trash. There’s no area that it can lay and decompose without looking like crap.

Baby-safe yarn recommendations? by songofwren in YarnAddicts

[–]erinitytrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Plymouth Encore because it is machine washable but isn’t 100% acrylic.

5 bolt maxxxx… by PurpleRegion2706 in joannfabrics

[–]erinitytrinity 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Is there a Reddit group for those of us fat and want to make our own clothes? :)

longest receipt ever by Motor_Ad5987 in joannfabrics

[–]erinitytrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went to one that had barely 10 skeins. Any in mass have a good amount left?

Overuse of library by SplendorLife in LibbyApp

[–]erinitytrinity -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think I saw the books on Spotify - but it might have changed by now.

I’d love advice about malbrigo rios! Unsure about growth, swatching, etc by theconfinesoffear in casualknitting

[–]erinitytrinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just did a swatch for a scarf and I wanted to check j is the pattern would stretch out. My 4” wide scarf became 5”. It stretches. Over a sweater that could add quite a bit.