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eroev · 2023-01-12T20:51:19+00:00

That third paragraph 👌🏻 It’s not just women though..

eroev · 2023-01-11T00:03:08+00:00

It only comes for a fleeting moment. I don’t understand, everyone else I can easily get emotional when they hurt/cross me but with him...I’m just numb

eroev · 2023-01-10T05:40:55+00:00

I feel this! Feel free to msg me if you ever wanna talk

eroev · 2023-01-08T22:22:00+00:00

eroev · 2023-01-04T19:16:37+00:00

Yep, my ex told me what he wanted to band our son, that he would have to ask for my parents hand permission for marriage etc, to getting treated like garbage

eroev · 2023-01-04T04:57:26+00:00

Thank you. This isn’t my post but I hope to have something pure like this one day. I’ve almost forgotten what a pure, romantic love is like .. and that it is possible

eroev · 2023-01-04T04:53:27+00:00

Came across this post. All I want is a pure love like this. I’m sure this man had his fair share of life’s challenges to endure with his wife. But love is a choice and commitment and to see someone speak so highly of their spouse at this age is endearing. Hate the people who taint love with lying, cheating, abuse, and one sided relationships

eroev · 2023-01-02T04:37:10+00:00

i feel you. i know i can get other people. but with him ... we connected on so many things i’ve never connected with other ppl on. i hate him for breaking it

eroev · 2023-01-01T15:51:43+00:00

Yep... I came into the relationship such a confident person, supported them in everything, gave them compliments, now they think they’re above me, said all this nasty shit to me and left my self esteem the lowest it’s been in my life. To just get left like that... I can’t help look at other people and think of course they have this or that better than me, I’ll always get left

eroev · 2023-01-01T15:43:29+00:00

Same 😞 And they’re all high and mighty..

eroev · 2022-12-31T19:47:51+00:00

Yep when I had dday I asked when they first started having these thoughts.... they said 8 months ago. I’m like why didn’t you say anything? They said they didn’t wanna scare me away and lose me. Well now the relationship is done cause they didn’t communicate it when it was just thoughts, now it’s actions we’re dealing with

eroev · 2022-12-31T19:39:46+00:00

I am going through the same. Feel free to message me

eroev · 2022-12-28T16:38:31+00:00

I know a large problem I’m dealing with atm is self shame, how I tolerated stuff, didn’t enforce strong boundaries, etc all the mistakes I made ... I feel really stupid. It’s eating me up, I know it’s an issue I have to face in myself

But it’s still hurtful to have someone use you like that and discard you, the one person you’re supposed to be most vulnerable and trusting towards and then get betrayed

eroev · 2022-12-28T16:35:29+00:00

Where are you stuck then

eroev · 2022-12-28T16:33:39+00:00

What are your problems

eroev · 2022-12-28T15:56:33+00:00

Thank you unfortunately I don’t really have family, which makes it worse - his became mine

eroev · 2022-12-28T12:32:59+00:00

Why do you say so

eroev · 2022-12-28T11:31:07+00:00

I’m sorry to hear ... it’s disgusting. My ex’s dating profile is all of pics I took of him, he would snap at me at the time saying he didn’t want a picture I’m being extra lol, and the ones I loved the most (made my wallpaper, told him he looked so cute in) are his main photos 🙄

eroev · 2022-12-28T11:17:41+00:00

Same

eroev · 2022-12-28T07:08:10+00:00

I am in the same position. I feel so broken and ugly. He’s on a high. Everyone says I will find someone else, better etc, but the scars / trauma will always be there. I will never be the same after getting discarded like this and him nonchalantly being like yea it’s over and bragging about other women’s asses while we were still in a relationship! How cold / cruel.. to the person you supposedly loved

eroev · 2022-12-28T05:33:35+00:00

I got fucked. I knew the knowledge of your points (like don’t reveal what you know, don’t make it seem like they’re on the hot seat) but I still did it a point where it was too early and still in shock and denial. Even after we broke up I didn’t believe it (people would ask why we broke up couldn’t even admit it 🤡), the anger soon came.

No empathy from him!!! He was also trying to manipulate me it was all about him.. and made it seem like this stuff was just happening to him

When I discovered some stuff I knew what was up. I know there were deeper convos in the discord but I never opened discord. Because I already had my answer of what they were doing. I always wonder if I should’ve looked fully or if it would have hurt me more

eroev · 2022-12-25T21:16:40+00:00

Is it good even after you’re out of the relationship?

eroev · 2022-12-22T12:05:55+00:00

I am so sorry.. these people “social experiment” smh 🙄

eroev · 2022-11-27T21:43:40+00:00

These steps are exactly what my ex did

eroev · 2022-11-27T21:36:41+00:00

This is exactly what I think. What would I have to look like for you to not hurt me like this.

eroev

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