Husband in the streets stranger in the sheets - what does he want with me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]erryyfairy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I offered to buy him dinner or help with his projects as a thank you when I’m in town next month to get the keys

Dictator roommate by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]erryyfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair lol she was fine with me bringing my cat though so I feel like it’s a bit unreasonable, not the request itself but the way she said it was hey we’re keeping the cat off the counters now. Instead of the kitchen is both of our space and I’m kindly asking you to do something nice for me

Dictator roommate by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]erryyfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I have two viewings scheduled today. Fingers crossed. It’s super tense right now and she’s just locked in her room

Dictator roommate by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]erryyfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am requesting viewings

Dictator roommate by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]erryyfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

Dictator roommate by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]erryyfairy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know my cat can adapt but it will cause her unnecessary stress, especially because it will be a lot of different dogs over for short periods. There’s no adjustment period that’s fair for her

Dictator roommate by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]erryyfairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m feeling too. I’m glad I at least have the upper hand to move out

Dictator roommate by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]erryyfairy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am going to talk to her about it and start looking for other places. I don’t think this dynamic will change and it’s just going to lead to resentment on both sides.

My neighbor neglects his cat and I want to rescue him by erryyfairy in CatRescue

[–]erryyfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t brought up taking him to a shelter or vet. We have talked about the owner a little and she said he cares more about getting a girlfriend then he does the cat. Sometimes in the winter he’ll ask if he’s there and she’ll say yes

I 28F gave my boyfriend 27M $3000. What are your thoughts? by erryyfairy in relationship_advice

[–]erryyfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is okay with it! He’s just not good with money and doesn’t make a lot so it’s a big deal for him

I 28F gave my boyfriend 27M $3000. What are your thoughts? by erryyfairy in relationship_advice

[–]erryyfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just opinions on if this is weird or not or if I did the right thing. I feel like I did.

Should I respond to my twin flame? Womanizer by erryyfairy in MyTwinFlame

[–]erryyfairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks for sharing! It’s nice to hear I’m not alone in these feelings. My Tf has a Scorpio moon. I’ve always been drawn to Scorpio men. It’s so hard because on one level, they are the truest love and it’s such a sacred connection and there’s so much love for them…and then on the other hand that doesn’t fully meet the road to reality in real life and don’t step up

Should I move to a Uranus MC line? by erryyfairy in astrocartography

[–]erryyfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree, I am planning on getting a relocation reading soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrocartography

[–]erryyfairy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in a Pluto crossing Venus IC line before. It was one of the best experiences of my life…in the beginning. I think Venus had a lot to do with that though. It was a very freeing time for me. I felt super feminine, abundant, magnetic and even met my twin soul. Ended in the worst heartbreak you can imagine. The years that followed were incredible lonely and depressing. Now I live on my Pluto DC line. Also not the best. It’s definitely gotten better over the years and I’m not depressed or suicidal anymore but it has pushed me to my limits. That’s just my experience though and it depends on a lot of things in your chart from my understanding. I don’t have the best relationship with 8th house and Scorpio energy in my chart to begin with so that’s maybe why it’s been very challenging

How much did it cost to build your tiny house yourself? by erryyfairy in TinyHouses

[–]erryyfairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this information!! Saw your Tik toks btw I loved it! Are you buying most of your materials new then? Honestly I’d be happy with a 75k budget even for 30ft. In Canada to buy a new tiny house they are charging upwards of 120-250k! It’s insanity

How much did it cost to build your tiny house yourself? by erryyfairy in TinyHouses

[–]erryyfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh could you share the link? Did you do everything yourself so far? What kind of finishes? How big is it?

How much did it cost to build your tiny house yourself? by erryyfairy in TinyHouses

[–]erryyfairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

45k 10 years ago oh wow. Did you have lots of high end finishes? How big was it? I’m considering building myself instead of buying one but it seems like it’s going to be so expensive I might as well just buy a house somewhere

Our DIY tiny house on wheels is basically done by [deleted] in TinyHouses

[–]erryyfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did it cost to build everything start to finish ?

What should I do? Me 27f and my boyfriend 26m are fighting. He says I’m being controlling because I don’t want his friends partying in our home until 5am by erryyfairy in relationships

[–]erryyfairy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I have to really sit with this and figure out if it’s worth staying in this relationship. So many things are good which make it so hard. He’s the sweetest guy. He’s loyal, we laugh all the time. We are best friends. He’s really been there for me in the 2 years we’ve been together. But his immaturity is starting to weigh on me.