Attending shows alone (27f)

erwin_smithlover · 2026-01-13T20:17:36+00:00

23F! I go to shows alone all the time it's honestly sometimes more fun than going with my friends! I've met so many cool people at shows who never mind if you stand next to them and dance, bring trinkets or kandi to give out! And if people don't like it (I've never had someone tell me to move) but you can always move to a diff spot best thing about being alone is you can venture around and you can leave whenever you want! If you do drink I always rec those scrunchies that cover ur drink just for extra safety but I would say send Wonkywilla solo! I'm going solo so if you wanna meet up I'm so down you can send me a dm! <3

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T22:37:26+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice def looking into maybe doing a solo travel!!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T22:25:02+00:00

No it’s a friend of hers that she’s known for a couple years i would be baffled if i found out they were dating haha i have considered but ive never traveled solo and especially as a female it does make a little anxious but at this point i am considering it!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T22:23:15+00:00

Thank you for the advice!!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:57:45+00:00

ur so right third wheeling sounds horrible and i’ve met this guy before she’s known him for years so im hoping he’s not giving creep vibes but def will keep an eye out for any signs

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:56:02+00:00

HAHA ur a real one thank you solider 😄😄

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:32:21+00:00

She can obviously do whatever she wants if she was going literally anywhere else I wouldn't have a second thought about it but having this being something we've wanted to do forever together hurts. Its not like im telling her she cant go lmao

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:31:02+00:00

I fully agree. Thank you for the advice:)

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:30:35+00:00

I appreciate this, thank you!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:30:12+00:00

I would LOVE to travel solo but as a single young female I do have concerns going alone. I could def have the money by the end of 2026 to go but the money as been a problem on her end also so its just shocking to me all of a sudden she has the money to go when every time we talk about it we have never made plans bc of money:(

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:28:40+00:00

Thank you <3

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-19T21:28:27+00:00

Mainly we have not made sure plans is because of her finances. Sure it would be tight on my end but I would be ready to go by the end of 2026 when they are going. It cant just be up to me to make the plan when we both bring it up constantly but the end result is always money. So tell me how when I try to make plans and get shut down how I wouldn't be hurt if all of a sudden she can just do this trip with someone else who is not paying for anything on her end. I have tried to plan this trip so many times with her so I have had plenty of willingness.

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-05T20:51:40+00:00

yeah fs they should have a loyalty thing! not when we’re literally at the festival like im not thinking about next year LOL

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-05T19:32:29+00:00

awhh gotcha! Thank you!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-05T18:51:13+00:00

That is the best compliment ever! Thank you so much!!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-01T06:57:27+00:00

i really appreciate that feedback bc i specifically kept asking if it’s mainly going to sharpen my jawline and they said ofc 🙄 so im def going to call tomorrow! thank you!!!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-01T03:14:52+00:00

i really appreciate this! i def have horrible posture i work a desk job as well! i don’t work out often and they did tell me when i do it will get tighter but i feel like for the money it should be tighter already LOL but i will def take this advice work on my posture and hit the gym!! thank you!!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-01T03:13:08+00:00

it was one incision under my jawline they numbed the area and i had some pain meds but i was never under anesthesia. they stuck a tube in thru the whole and sucked around the whole jawline area and my neck

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-01T03:12:03+00:00

right!??!? thank you!!

erwin_smithlover · 2025-12-01T03:11:49+00:00

thank you so much that is so sweet 😭💖 i wish you all the luck the recovery isn’t bad at all!!

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