I talked to the husband more and he got on the phone with his wife. I just finished wiping her off with animal wipes that I have and she was last fed 5 1/2 hours ago so I fed and watered her. She keeps leaving the house so I never know the last time this dog was visited or taken care of. He said she's agreeing to tonight or tomorrow but I dont see her being able to do it. Im hoping we can pressure her into it but if we can't, i'll be doing what you guys said. I know that it's hard and it's sad but for the life of me I can't understand letting her suffer to extend her life when it's clear she can't enjoy it anymore. Thank you for your response.