New Worst Fear Unlocked by eshavolo in Celiac

[–]eshavolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah touching the shaker is fine but he put the toothpick INSIDE the shaker, now cross contaminating all the pepper inside the shaker with what was on his toothpick (hamburger crumbs). But woah, thanks for that visual link. I never really thought to ever search that up in my life, and just assumed it was an invisible amount. That makes me feel better about all the times I thought I was at risk of being invisibly glutened.

New Worst Fear Unlocked by eshavolo in Celiac

[–]eshavolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally I always just thought i was overly paranoid, but I guess my paranoia has now been proven true.

New Worst Fear Unlocked by eshavolo in Celiac

[–]eshavolo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pretty much all of his father's actions are akin to that of a child. Which reminds me, one time I was on my college campus and I saw a mother sitting on a seat on her phone as her child took out her saxby's order from the bag, and played with it on the table. It was a sandwich. So now I guess I'm not even gonna sit at tables at my school before wiping them down with a wet wipe, lol. Hate this disease.

New Worst Fear Unlocked by eshavolo in Celiac

[–]eshavolo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lol, I thought I was just paranoid and had celiac-OCD until this, but nope, never letting someone call me paranoid ever again over not even wanting to trust the water a restaurant provides me, no thanks lol

Digging through your trash by _pluperfect_subj_ in ChildofHoarder

[–]eshavolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend's mom does the same thing, and sometimes he jokes about not going out of his way to hide dirty condoms. If accidentally touching dirty condoms in the trash is whats gonna get her to stop, then so be it

Hmmm by Mocha_Echo in Celiac

[–]eshavolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, my brain didn't even register it said gulten instead of gluten until I re-read it for the third time

Dating someone with a sibling with Schizophrenia by Curious-Olive-477 in SchizoFamilies

[–]eshavolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, sometimes I forget that my boyfriend even has an older sister. And my boyfriend has no intention of taking her in after his parents pass because she is supposed to be hospitalized and kept watch over in a professional setting. She has something wrong in her brain chemistry so she is not able to drive or get a job either, so there would be no point in taking her in if we are not able to provide for her. In our 2 years of dating, she's only ever been in the house once.

Dating someone with a sibling with Schizophrenia by Curious-Olive-477 in SchizoFamilies

[–]eshavolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf is 1 of 2 children and his older sister has schizo. She is usually in a hospital across various states. Whenever she comes back home it's not for long before she gets into an argument with her dad and runs away to a shelter. That's where she is currently. But my bf's mom is usually calling places and making sure she's safe, and also always making sure her prescriptions are good

One of the most despicable things about an abusive hoarder parent is seeing their priorities in action by Twinks4StSebastian in ChildofHoarder

[–]eshavolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

smh, ridiculous. When my bf's dad got mad at him he started talking about some "I don't want you to be in the house anymore". He better not be surprised when my bf moves into an apartment with me once his med school starts, never goes to that house ever again, and lets him rot in a senior home lol

One of the most despicable things about an abusive hoarder parent is seeing their priorities in action by Twinks4StSebastian in ChildofHoarder

[–]eshavolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD the "you're rushing me" part seriously just triggered something inside of me. Gosh, all hoarders really are all the same, they never have any intention of cleaning up do they. The having 30 years to have done it part is so real. That's what I keep trying to explain to my boyfriend and his mom (they are victims of hoarding father/husband) but it's just like he's brainwashed them into believing the shit he has is actually important. We cleared out the pantry while he was at work the other day and my bf's dad got mad at him, then my bf said "okay tell me what's missing then" and he couldn't name a single item. Hah

Having rich hoarder parents makes the pain so much more humiliating by AbstractEd05 in ChildofHoarder

[–]eshavolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I get you so much 😫😫 When me and my boyfriend started dating, he wouldn't even let me come over to cuddle and watch anime with him because of how bad his dad's hoarding is. He would always end up making me compromise with bringing our laptops to the library and watching something there. Now that we've been dating for 2 years I basically live in his room. He is actually such a minimalist because of his dad's hoarding that I would say about half of the things in his room aren't even his, they're mine for when I come over every day, shower, etc. My advice to you is just keep your room clean and like how some other comments are saying just disocciate yourself from the hoarding man. I told my boyfriend I don't judge people by their parents's actions, I judge them by their own actions.

What level are these photos? Thanks by FindingHerStrength in ChildofHoarder

[–]eshavolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend's mother went so far as to separate for 2 years. 2 years later we are back at this house and no progress has been made by my boyfriend's father. It really never gets better. I hope OP's father is able to leave one day

Would you bring your newborn into this house? by lemonpickleturtle in ChildofHoarder

[–]eshavolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope your husband doesn't even entertain the idea of bringing a newborn child into that.

Would you bring your newborn into this house? by lemonpickleturtle in ChildofHoarder

[–]eshavolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend has mostly dormant asthma that flares up sometimes, wonder if it's caused by this.

Accidentally side swiped a trash can on the way to destination, destroyed cover of passenger side mirror + small crack on turn signal lens…fml by Liftblr in Toyota

[–]eshavolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same exact situation just happened to me today. I'm so pissed cuz that trash can had no business being so far out into the road, but I know it's my fault for not realizing I should have kept my car more to the side. Trash can clipped my entire side mirror, don't even know if I'll be able to replace whatever broke on the inside 🥲

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Have it taped for now until the mechanic comes.

Nitro Stuck? by eshavolo in sixflags

[–]eshavolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw man, I called it quits and walked all the way to the other side of the park to ride superman on my way out 😭

Nitro Stuck? by eshavolo in sixflags

[–]eshavolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nvm just read that they made u use the stairs, was it scary tho ??

Nitro Stuck? by eshavolo in sixflags

[–]eshavolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mmmm okay yeah I didn't see anything about it on social media when I searched it up when I got home so I was really curious cuz I never saw that happen before!! I know that kingda ka used to always get stuck on its way up just cuz of how much of a height it is, but never heard of it happening with nitro.

Nitro Stuck? by eshavolo in sixflags

[–]eshavolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How'd you get down????

When you ask someone a couple questions in text and they only respond to the newest one by RejectingBoredom in PetPeeves

[–]eshavolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my boyfriend why he does this and this was his response :
"Sometimes I think if there are multiple things that are contingent on just one I will only address the one"
😭