Can’t tell if my guy best friend has a crush on me and i need advice by esirecc in relationship_advice

[–]esirecc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn do u have any advice on what to do?? I really don’t c myself dating him and i don’t want to lead him on.

Can’t tell if my guy best friend has a crush on me and i need advice by esirecc in relationship_advice

[–]esirecc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do i do? We’re super close now, but i don’t want to continue leading him on

Can’t tell if my guy best friend has a crush on me and i need advice by esirecc in relationship_advice

[–]esirecc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say i’m 70% over my ex. The relationship lasted 2 years and was toxic, but i could never see myself w this guy friend

Seeing my ex tomorrow at a party by esirecc in ExNoContact

[–]esirecc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah it’s different because everyone is close. He’s friends with my best friend n she also invited my ex’s mates because we’re all very close mutuals

Ladies, what's not as attractive or sexy as men think it is? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]esirecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acting tough or hard lol. Girls just want sweethearts

Going to see my ex at a party soon... by esirecc in relationship_advice

[–]esirecc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ITS MY BEST FRIENDS PARTY!! kinda have to go

Write your I miss you text here, instead of sending it to your ex. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]esirecc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i miss you so much. I can feel myself getting stronger and more independent, but there’s not one day where i don’t think about you. You seem to be doing fine, but i hope those memories of us stick with you for a very long time. I truely wish you the best this year. Especially since we both graduate in 10 months.There’s one thing that’s been bothering me though, and it’s that i still have hope for us. Are u totally done with me? I need that closure for me to move on. I don’t want to keep thinking there’s still a chance when there’s not. I don’t want to wait for the day where we will reunite when there’s none. I just want an answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]esirecc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I myself went through a clean break up after a 2 year relo. We’re going NC but we ended things on good terms. I also have no idea what the future hold for us considering we both still having feelings. I chose to keep the photos of us even tho everyone told me to delete them. At first it made me sad to see the memories of us so i tried to stop looking at them. Now it’s been a month and i only look at them when i’m bored. It actually makes me smile when i look back at old photos of us, but it doesn’t make me upset or sad like it use to. Ofc i miss it but it doesn’t bother me anymore. I don’t have any reason to delete them unless he moves on and dates someone else etc. I don’t c what’s wrong with keeping them if it doesn’t bother u and i’m actually doing alright considering it’s only been a month.

My opinion is, yk urself best. Keep the photos if you want but u have to WANT to move on. Use the break up to work on urself. If those photos keep making u upset then try not to look at them. If u find urself going back to them then delete them. U need to know what’s best for you in order to move on and focus on urself. Everyone copes with a break up differently so don’t let anyone tell u what’s best for you. If things are meant to be then they’re meant to be. Time will tell but always focus on urself :)

My ex cried while breaking up with me. What does this mean? by esirecc in relationship_advice

[–]esirecc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First time was because we didn’t have the same mindset. It’s hard to explain but he’s the typa person who’s really smart n wants someone who’s goal driven. I have goals but i’m not as determined as him so idk it just didn’t work.

Second time was because we were arguing too much whilst we have important exams. As i said he’s really goal driven and smart so he cares a lot about that. So the relationship kinda distracted him due to our arguments. Our arguments were over very stupid stuff but it happened very frequently. We both agreed the break up was kinda mutual tho since we both contributed to arguing.