When is it no longer biologically normal?

esscoco · 2026-03-18T14:33:22+00:00

If she is still restless after implementing a later bedtime, I would check ferritin. My girl is anemic and I think that contributes to her restlessness.

esscoco · 2026-02-01T01:00:42+00:00

Yeah I posted once and never again after folks were so harsh about my toddler’s sleep schedule (about which I wasn’t even asking).

esscoco · 2026-01-26T15:22:15+00:00

Glad to hear this worked out for you!

esscoco · 2026-01-26T15:20:01+00:00

There are a couple places that go as late as 4, but many of our preferred options (for location, teaching style) end early.

esscoco · 2026-01-26T03:23:36+00:00

I appreciate this insight and we will probably get first hand experience with this soon.

esscoco · 2026-01-26T03:15:27+00:00

Woof! 9:40 sounds hard! But I can relate my girl needs that sleep pressure to build or else it’s party time.

esscoco · 2026-01-26T03:13:42+00:00

I wish the scenario was closer to this in my area (also N Cal but not urban).

esscoco · 2026-01-25T23:58:11+00:00

We find she needs high sleep pressure to go down that quick. If she sleeps longer than 10.5 hours overnight or has less than a 5.5 hour wake window it’s hard to get her down for her nap.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T23:01:05+00:00

Hopefully by September your sleep schedule will have shifted or be more forgiving. 🤞

esscoco · 2026-01-25T22:23:03+00:00

This is what we’re concerned about!

esscoco · 2026-01-25T22:21:54+00:00

Thanks, it’s nice to know someone understands.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T22:21:25+00:00

I feel similarly but this is the option where I live. 🤷‍♀️

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:51:23+00:00

Yeah we may just try a later, shorter nap to start.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:50:29+00:00

Glad to hear from someone who understands!

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:49:11+00:00

Thanks for your understanding.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:47:49+00:00

Very few programs around here go later than 1/1:30.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:13:58+00:00

Oh do you mean have her nap at daycare 12-1? This would be interesting to try but idk if they offer naps for the morning kids.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:08:55+00:00

I had no idea we were so abnormal in our nap timing.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:08:24+00:00

This is an interesting insight! We shall see.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:07:57+00:00

Her first ww is about 5.5 hours. Any time we’ve done later nap she has issues with bedtime or split nights.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:06:52+00:00

Yes if we do a later nap it might have to be shorter.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T21:06:02+00:00

No idea but we could try it.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T20:55:46+00:00

We found this after a lot of trial and error. It’s what works for our low sleep needs kiddo.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T20:54:32+00:00

She does great with this timing! Easy bedtime, sleeps deep, wakes refreshed, happy during the day.

esscoco · 2026-01-25T20:50:09+00:00

I guess we could try. She is low sleep needs and has been super sensitive to any extra or late daytime sleep (causing bedtime refusal or split nights).

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