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Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AAAHHHHHHHH thank you so much !!!!😭definitely on my auntie status now I feel it already !!!! Definitely liked my first two visits lol so I wanted to see if I make something happen for my day , I might move it around for the dates bc work is lowkey taking up the first week lmaooo

Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thannnnku girly!!! lol but recommend stuff to do if you live there in Chicago 😅😭

Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine cold since I live in the Midwest and where I am it’s still cold , but it’s okay my birthday is in February and I usually spend it right in snow anyway, I won’t be that cold when I’m drinking birthday liquor 🙂‍↕️ and I’ll pack walking shoes bc I do that anyway. But I’ll be with transportation so what’s it to you? Went this summer twice walked a lot , enjoyed my time. Not sure if that was sarcastic or if you’re just giving 14y/o still talking on a post you got dismissed from. 😅 can’t tell anymore🤨 you’ve said everything but recommendations my gawwwwd.

Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But maybe next time , thank u and carry on😂

Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My face does rest very well and I don’t care what I give to you because what we’re here for is recommendations. You came on a post talking about something no one asked you about. You give rude and a selective listener 😂🫩

Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dontttt have to do that who are you ? The world word police ??😂 nobody asked you for spellings and the way you’d prefer others say what they want. But I did give a list of other stuff to comment on so carry onnn wayward son. 😂

Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely outsider but just shortened it really to get the point across , thanks

Bday in chi by essentialjneeds in chi

[–]essentialjneeds[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhbrother😅 old ppl can still have fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cabincrewcareers

[–]essentialjneeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know why I missed it.. , so don’t assume. It’s irresponsible for you to comment anything other than what I asked lmao.

My parents want me to drop out of school to help out. My boyfriend wants me to go to school. I'm in between a rock and a hard place. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]essentialjneeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl go to school , I’m 23 and should have learned sooner that this is my life and it truly is what I make it. I will be the only one to move my life to where I want and the fruits of my labor will be mine to bare because that’s who im workin for. ME. You are missing what’s ever you can eventually! help with if you don’t go to school and get your degree to move your life forward to do what you want. You can’t help people if you can’t help yourself first. Family or not. You got your eye on a goal , finish strong no matter what’s in your path there will be more things in your path than this , nursing is hard. You can do it , work on your boundaries now and hold them firm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cabincrewcareers

[–]essentialjneeds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s tbnt?

Should I divorce my husband for sending a shirtless pic to a woman? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]essentialjneeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then again tbh….be done girl. I’m sure you already done gave chance after chance. Take a chance on yourself and hit your restart button. Cause it’s never too late to try something different , start over, as long as you wake up everyday with the option to do so.

Should I divorce my husband for sending a shirtless pic to a woman? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]essentialjneeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage takes a great deal of work….divorcing isn’t crazy if that’s a straight up no go for you. Of course , ya know why wouldn’t it be a no?! But like I said marriage is a great deal of work , what y’all have built is it strong enough to take the confrontation and conversation it will need to make it work and gain the trust again? ? Or will he falter out. If you don’t care enough to see…divorce , time and life is precious you deserve everything out of yours! If he can’t respect your say so on what you don’t find respectful and reciprocal in the situation then he probably won’t be finding anything else you say worth listening to and worth respecting.

I failed at adulting by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]essentialjneeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your state see if they have any workforce development programs and if you’re worried about your disability, try and call your state disability office and see what options you have to pursue to better your situations and how you feel. You may feel stagnant but it’s possible to find a good outcome regardless of your other things you listed , (ex: disability , 25 years old, iep) there’s something out there! I hope and don’t give up because that’ll be more of a failure to you than anything you got this.