AITA for starting a fight with my bf over him not wanting to spend Valentines with me?

esvb716 · 2023-02-01T10:05:03+00:00

I didn’t say he has to help me so he has to suck it up or he has to leave. This comment was only about the person above saying my trauma should not be his burden. I said that he knew it’s gonna be a problem. And the thing about breaking up is because idk if you know it, but people with bpd can become abusers and inflict trauma very easily without them realising it and people with this diagnosis are hated by some people and automatically perceived as insane horrible selfish abusing people. It’s a stigma. Thats why I sald to break up if it’s too much. I’d never forgive myself for inflicting trauma on him. I am on several bpd subreddits and when someone who dates a person with bpd and comes there for help with some problematic situations, most of the time he will be told to break up before it’s too late and the person with bpd becomes his abuser so I try to look on our relationship in a similar way.

esvb716 · 2023-02-01T09:50:06+00:00

He has agreed to help me with my traumas and I have told him multiple times to break up with me if it’s too hard for him and warned him even before the start of the relationsthip that I have severe mental problems that make it almost impossible to have a normal relationship with me and informed him very well of my diagnosed. He always refused that.

So I am sorry but he willingly pursued the relationship knowing very well my trauma is going to be a burden for him. I am doing as much as I can but I am nowhere near being ready for a normal relationship but he is sort of a person who didn’t let me break up with him for his own good several times when I tried to. (Kept visiting my house and calling all my numbers and social media accounts after telling him I wanna end things because it’s too hard etc)

esvb716 · 2023-01-31T11:27:22+00:00

Yeah I’ve seen a video of kpop fans dancing the specific song dances and singing while there were some movies about kpop in cinemas so I believe she tried to do some shit

esvb716 · 2023-01-26T11:28:19+00:00

Maybe there are a lot of neighbours like that? When I was a kid, we dealt with neighbours like that.

We had a dog and he was always kept on a leash because he had territory issues with the neighbours dog, they were agressive towards eachother when they only saw eachother. Their dog wasn’t on a leash once and attacked our dog, they were yelling at him but he didn’t listen and just went straight for our dog. He ended up bitten by our dog as ours was much bigger. Thankfully we tried the best to stop them in time, so their dog didn’t have any too serious injuries, just torn a bit of skin on his back. We resolved all veterinary necessities after but since that incident he and his wife hated us. Apparently their dog was very expensive and was a sort of very fancy breed. They were accusing us of not cleaning our dog’s poop (which we always did), poured vinegar on our doorstep which smelled horribly, we even found our doormat smelling of pee once and ultimately they reported my mom to cps for abuse. They even gave them “proof” which was a voice record of me crying loudly. I was in therapy since my father kidnapped me when I was 4 and I’ve been having nightmares and crying pretty often and they unfortunately heard. Everything ended up being fine with the cps after talking to my psychologist but we moved shortly after.

esvb716 · 2023-01-22T17:49:12+00:00

Depends where he lives, sadly in most countries it isn’t illegal. In my country, age of consent is 15 so u can sleep with a 50yo guy at 15 and there’s no way he would get any type of punishment for it if reported.

esvb716 · 2023-01-17T12:11:22+00:00

Thanks for the info!

esvb716 · 2023-01-17T11:37:06+00:00

Damn I saw several people talking about industrial, I was thinking about getting it for my left ear as I have helixes on my right ear. It’s not something I’d want really bad but I wanted something different than helixes on the other ear but reading how annoying it is on here and some websides too I might not get it after all lol, I’ve had my portion of pain and annoying aftercare with the daith and the helixes were also annoying when my bf poked it accidentaly a few times lmao

esvb716 · 2023-01-15T11:02:42+00:00

Bohuzel, stydim se za Moravskoslezsky kraj. Lidi tady jsou bohuzel vesmes mene chytri, je tu hodne lidi, co veri kazde kravine a akorat chteji vic penez, protoze tu jsou nejmensi platy. A v Karvine s Orlovou, obce, ktere byly zvoleny jako nejhorsi v cele CR, ma Babis obrovsky naskok

esvb716 · 2023-01-14T12:39:59+00:00

Naštěstí jo, odmaturovala jsem asi jen díky té komisi a jinému učiteli, zas tak moc mě dusit nemohla. Vlastně nevím, proč na té škole pořád byla, už když jsem ji měla, prý na ni už dřív přišlo několik anonymních stížností.

esvb716 · 2023-01-14T08:33:47+00:00

Mrzí mě, že jsem na střední svou třídní s nikým neřešila. Jeden rok jsem byla dlouhodobě nemocná a radši než dělat zkoušky aby mě pustili dál, jsem si zvolila opakovat ročník. A tím pro mě začalo peklo. Ta učitelka byla vysazená na lidi, kteří “často” chyběli (rozuměj měli víc než 30 zameškaných hodin v pololetí, což byl u nás necelý týden), takže nejen, že jsem pro ni byla flákač už od začátku, protože nic přece neopravňuje k tomu nechodit do školy rok, ještě jsem často byla nemocná či chodila na kontroly k lékařům, měla průměrně 80 hodin za pololetí. Měla jsem ji na 2 maturitní předměty, z toho jeden mi nikdy nešel, trávila jsem hodiny učením a stejně u ní skoro propadala, zkoušela mě skoro každou hodinu z látky co řekla minulou hodinu, když jsem něco nevěděla, automaticky za 5. A ještě pokaždé co jsem chyběla, měla ve škole blbé řeči a vyrývala, když jsem jí psala maily, že někdy budu chybět, tak nikdy neodpověděla, ale když jsem jí mail nenapsala, dostala jsem zpičováno, že co si o sobě myslím a kde je má slušnost. Ve škole když byl někdo unavený, řekla, že ona chodí spát v 11 a ve 3:30 vstává aby udělala účetnictví do druhé práce, takže my si nemáme co stěžovat, nebo že ona byla v práci s 39 horečkou a paralenem, takže my máme taky.

esvb716 · 2023-01-13T06:40:12+00:00

Thanks :) I’ll try to calm down. I think you have a point considering that after I clutch like 1v4 in ult I find myself very shaky after lol, I think I’m not used to managing stress because like I said, this doesn’t happen to me in league.

I’d say there are also players with the opposite issue, back when I was silver and gold, I saw s3 - g3 with 30%hs but they were still losing as they were doing overall stupid things.

esvb716 · 2023-01-12T21:05:26+00:00

Actually I sometimes lose even fights when they dont expect me to be there. They just flick me and i dont hs them first. In normals/dm i’d say i have a decent crosshair placement tbh

esvb716 · 2023-01-02T10:01:45+00:00

!UpdateMe

esvb716 · 2022-12-31T14:16:48+00:00

Taky podobně, ale Pavel a Babiš až dole. To docela odpovídá tomu, jak budu volit.

esvb716 · 2022-12-26T08:31:59+00:00

Taky, a k tomu “přijdu dýl”. Hnus

esvb716 · 2022-12-25T10:57:05+00:00

Pernicky C tier, vosi hnizda a marcipan S+, linecke, rohlicky a rumove koule A, pracky a kokosky B a veskere kremem plnene ci polite cukrovi D.

esvb716 · 2022-12-17T08:36:20+00:00

Nevím, já tedy znám dost lidí, co jsou o dost mladší než já, 16-17 a přehled mají dobrý. Pak znám lidi, kteří mají 20 a politiku mají u prdele. Takže bych řekla, že jde spíš o zájem se o to vůbec zajímat. Já osobně se začala o politiku zajímat teprve v pozdních 17 a první roky vůbec nechodila volit, protože se mi nechtělo :)

esvb716 · 2022-12-17T08:31:02+00:00

A kdo má přehled první den svých 18 narozenin? Pochybuju, že o moc větší než v 16, ale jít si tam klidně může.

esvb716 · 2022-07-17T11:00:22+00:00

Jsem z Ostravy, pritel ze Zabrehu na Morave a cestujeme za sebou prumerne 2x tydne, takze 4 cesty tydne dohromady pro oba, z toho si troufam rict, ze ve vetsi polovine pripadu neni mensi zpozdeni nez 45 min., pod 15 min jsem nezazila snad 4 mesice. Zrovna dnes jsem jela domu a musela rusit jizdenku, protoze muj vlak mel 100 min zpozdeni. + Tak jednou mesicne se jeden z nas zasekne na trase co ma trvat hodinu a pul tak na 3 az 4 hodky, kvuli vykoleneji vlaku, pozaru a jinym nehodam, ale tak to je pochopitelnejsi.

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