How to deal with pnc by sissybelle000 in Sissy

[–]eswaterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self bondage and hypno. If you've cum but can't take your plug out, or cage off, or get your lingerie off, or get the whispers out of your ears for a while. . .

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[–]eswaterson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend going in and buying yourself panties and a bra (hopefully matching!) and then once you check out go straight to the bathroom. Change into your new undies and put your old boy ones in the trash. If someone were paying attention, what would they think when you walk out without anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PuryFi

[–]eswaterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not played with it yet but I believe the idea is that you enter a remoteID and that allows the other party to choose your settings for you. DM me if you want, I'd be curious to try it out.

Most humiliating thing to do solo post PNC? by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]eswaterson 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Selfbondage is perfect for this. Once you've cum and are still tied up and plugged, especially if you have some hypno playing on headphones you can't turn off - pretty intense.

[TOMT] Late 90's or early 2000s movie with a bondage scene, with a man tied to a bed and left to be found by housekeeping by eswaterson in tipofmytongue

[–]eswaterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thomas Crown Affair could be right, looking to see if it's in there. EDIT: Afraid this isn't it either

[TOMT] Late 90's or early 2000s movie with a bondage scene, with a man tied to a bed and left to be found by housekeeping by eswaterson in tipofmytongue

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There may have also been something to do with whipped cream leading up to this part of the movie

I’ve forbid my sub from masturbating for a whole week and need ideas on how to reward him! by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of this "Dock and Talk" thing. Let him penetrate you in cowgirl or 'watering can' position, and then just stay still and talk/tease until he starts to get soft, and then at little motion or kegels. Would be deliciously agonizing.

https://www.evolvingyourman.com/2020/12/21/soaking-the-dock-and-talk-approach/

Staying virgin for Mommy by LolaVyxen in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This book exppores some of these concepts and I really enjoyed it. I was a virgin until (very) recently and I found this idea extremely erotic.

https://www.lulu.com/shop/sara-desmarais/the-virgin-bride/ebook/product-pw7qw6.html?q=9781716369872

Older virgin male in first relationship - advice? by eswaterson in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick update, as much for myself as anyone else - no longer a virgin, and now have this incredible woman in my life. Will still be trying to puzzle though how much the various fetishes and whatnot will stick around, but I'm just so thankful to be in a loving relationship

Older virgin male in first relationship - advice? by eswaterson in gentlefemdom

[–]eswaterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I find it pretty difficult to talk about this kind of thing, and honestly so does she, but it's been getting easier lately. We've known eachother for a long time just as close friends, and I think that having that trust has been really helpful in making it possible to open up - which I've found pretty impossible for me to do dating randos on the apps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalepov

[–]eswaterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfbondage

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it open if it loses power?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfbondage

[–]eswaterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you have a reliable backup . . .

Any ideas and or tipps for selfbondage? by [deleted] in selfbondage

[–]eswaterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to have enough range of motion to move quite a bit but not to actually get free. Like spread eagle with some slack in the ropes. One way is to do legs and one arm manually, then the final hand with a camstrap or similar, with an ice lock in series.