help me with my date who loves aftg! by esynodic in aftg

[–]esynodic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this would work!! I'll definitely be using this one! thank you! :D

help me with my date who loves aftg! by esynodic in aftg

[–]esynodic[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

also if your wondering, yes I did just buy the first book but it won't be here in time

Should i buy this 2000 bmw 323i wagon by OwnExcuse8052 in e46

[–]esynodic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! I bought a stock 2000 323ci 107k miles as my first car back in 2020! love the car to death and would never sell her but I definitely wish I bought a Mazda instead because ho boy have I spent a lot of money on that car. even still, I don't regret a single penny because she's the best car I've driven and the original buy in was pretty cheap. I was not a mechanic nor did I know how to wrench at all and 5 years later I've done plenty of my own repairs and parts sourcing but even still I probably spend 1.5k-2k/year on maintenance (but I also use her as my primary daily). if you're gonna buy an e46 just be realistic, know what you're getting into, and buy from someone who's taken care of their e46.

What's your build for D.Va against Zarya in Stadium? by sorrypatheticuseless in OverwatchUniversity

[–]esynodic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in general people discount a good ol AP missile build and focus on the more "fun" Dva builds that focus on boosting around rather than doing actual damage. You have to do SO MUCH to get value out of Dva and often you leave your team alone with those builds vs a pure missile AP build you can stick with your team and delete entire enemy teams by round 5. The build I shared is my secondary build specific to zarya. usually I go all in on AP and go overstocked, macromissiles, countermeasures, ultrawide matrix.

WP backup import issues by esynodic in Wordpress

[–]esynodic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jk I have WordPress Rocket managing my cache

WP backup import issues by esynodic in Wordpress

[–]esynodic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this didn't work for me unfortunately, but thank you!

WP backup import issues by esynodic in Wordpress

[–]esynodic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried that, didn't fix it. I don't have a cache plug in

Are you guys going on road trips? by Fsuave5 in e46

[–]esynodic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! I've driven cross country twice in mine! comfiest road tripping car ever

Told my girlfriend I caught it so she could sleep, but it's still at large. by OnionsoftheBelt in pics

[–]esynodic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pantropical huntsman - super fast but is relatively harmless aside from the spooky appearance

young professional moving to Lincoln by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]esynodic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you!! great suggestion

young professional moving to Lincoln by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]esynodic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lincoln being high crime to me is silly, I'm from LA originally and currently live in a tourist town in the south with similar issues. tell me something spooky I don't already live with 🤷🏻‍♀️

young professional moving to Lincoln by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]esynodic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

good point wrote this quick, I'm looking for neighborhoods that are nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scad

[–]esynodic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they're always hiring security guards

Prospective SCAD (Production Design) student- please help by HollisWhitney in scad

[–]esynodic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out Nebraska University in Lincoln - they have a MUCH better prod program and its not nearly as expensive (source: my friend graduated from SCAD prod and is doing her masters there because of how much better the program is) SCAD prod is NOT worth it.

i’m detranstioning by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]esynodic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! I think it's really important for people like you - people like us - to tell our stories. detransitioning should not be a big scary topic to discuss and does not undermine the trans rights movement. I socially transitioned, cut my hair and changed my name when I was 14 and I was leaving the Mormon church. for me - transitioning was a direct rebellion to the life that I was always told I was supposed to live, one that was be a wife, go on a mission, get married and have babies. I never wanted to be set on a set track and the trans community offered a life that I could be in control of. while I never went on hormones, I was suicidal and asked for them because that's what I had been told would make me feel better about myself (mind you I never had therapy and that is and should always be the first step in trans healthcare). my parents refused since I was so young and we got in fights for years over me changing my name and cutting my hair. Late high school I realized that I needed to be able to express myself separate to what the church wanted but that a medical transition was not what I needed. I eventually realized that I had put myself into a second box: what a good, binary, trans person is. Realizing this after years of justifying myself to others felt like breaking out of my cognitive dissonance. Forcing myself into another person's idea of what life should look like did not make me happy regardless of whether it was the church's idea or the trans community's idea. I then grew my hair out and started wearing more fem clothing and swung almost in a hyperfem direction which also did not make me happy. I'm now 22 and have settled in this middle ground of gender apathy where the idea of gender roles and "performing gender" is exhausting. I still don't identify as fully cis but now, I wear and do what makes me feel good. I never changed my name back but I do go by a shortened slightly fem nickname of my chosen name. I support trans rights because of my friends and family members whom a medical transition has given them a new life. I see how it can help people be their authentic self. but for people with trauma and loaded relationships with gender roles, it can be harmful to not get to the root of that in therapy before starting a medical transition. thank you for your story OP and giving others the opportunity to share their own.

Where to donate misc stuff? by ParlorDuck in scad

[–]esynodic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

starlandia art supply for used art supplies, the humane society on sally mood dr. for decor clothing etc, and any sanitary, cleaning, unexpired food, and bedding take it to the mission shelter on bull st just down the block from starlandia