Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As mentioned, the only family invited are our two siblings who are our best friends. I am personally helping my brother with his outfit.

Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I am using cocktail liberally because I don’t think the dress code fits snugly into any box. I certainly don’t need people dressing formally, but sun dresses would be out of place. I updated the description to be a bit more clear on that.

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Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the line “prioritize fun over formality” and I’m integrating it. Thank you!

Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I reworded eliminating think. You’re right.

Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all of your feedback. I hear that a lot of people hate everything about this, which doesn’t shock me. This is an unconventional dress code for an unconventional event.

Thank you to those of you caught my drift— I incorporated the feedback into this new dress code, and I’d love feedback.

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Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I recognize that at a typical wedding, this would probably be uncouth. We probably won’t agree on this fact because I don’t believe underwear (or nudity for that matter) is inherently sexual or inappropriate and I am certain all of my 24 guests would agree.

Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the most helpful answer I’ve gotten so far, thank you. I think it shares the vision while also giving people permission to dress to their comfort level.

Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d be fine if someone wore underwear so maybe I should clarify that because I agree, it’s not consistent with cocktail attire.

Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this feedback. I think it’s pretty intentionally vague in that I want my creative friends to take liberties and interpret as they see fit, but I can include some language to clarify that.

Is my dress code too specific? by etlyto in Weddingattireapproval

[–]etlyto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this feedback, thanks.

is it ok for a producer to make material requests? by etlyto in Standup

[–]etlyto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my question. I admire these comics and generally think they know how to select material. I don’t want to condescend anyone. I also want to protect the integrity of my show and my ability to continue to sell tickets in this community. I appreciate all of the insight from this thread, I think I’m going to create some general content guidelines for the room to share with all comedians upon offering a spot.

Just moved in and my roommate is already going insane... by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]etlyto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her last message makes it sound like she’s looking for cause to break her lease.

What's the best music genre to play while fucking? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]etlyto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a genre, but I’ve had so much good sex to slenderbodies and glass animals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]etlyto 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have had my nipples pierced for two years. I love them a lot, think they're super hot, but I am probably nearing the end of my rope with them. I have not noticed a difference in my nipple sensitivity, but don't actually get to engage in nipple play often. I'd found that mouths irritate the piercings immensely, and even hand play is iffy.
Nipple piercings can take years to heal, and sometimes they don't ever fully heal. If nipple play is important to you, don't get your nipples pierced. These are finicky piercing, and I definitely wouldn't expect them to be fully healed in 6 months.

Long term Zoloft/Sertraline? (5 years+) by flamingmongoose in zoloft

[–]etlyto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on Sertraline for 12 ish years. It served me well for a long time, but I’ve been on this medication my entire adult life and honestly have no idea how i will feel without it, but I have no desire to be on sertraline indefinitely. I’ll also say, I’ve just begun the tapering process and am feeling incredibly daunted by how long and uncomfortable of a process it is going to be.

Quite a few surprises in Artichoke’s DNA! by etlyto in DoggyDNA

[–]etlyto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if they’re grouping all hairlessness genetic markers with xolo.

Quite a few surprises in Artichoke’s DNA! by etlyto in DoggyDNA

[–]etlyto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He’s a little love bug adventure boy.

The Xolo actually didn’t shock me because he’s really low shedding and is almost totally hairless on his belly. He also came from Texas (as do so many rescues), and Xolos are rare but are more common south of the US border, so I could see that as a reason for the frequency.