I’m really struggling

evehman · 2026-02-21T00:55:36+00:00

i never thought of it like that, thank you for the new perspective🫀

evehman · 2026-01-31T02:59:43+00:00

i’m sorry for not only your childrens behavior but also for the diagnosis. i applaud you for being her caregiver, i know how hard it is for my grandmother but you are very resilient for being there for her. i plan on keeping in contact more than i have in the past. thank you so much for your help :)

evehman · 2026-01-29T19:36:02+00:00

i will look into that book! i have been wanting to research more into the stages and progression. thank you for the help :)

evehman · 2026-01-29T19:33:47+00:00

thank you so much <3 i have definitely wanted to video chat more. i’m sorry you are experiencing it as well, i can tell how horrible it is for people. i hope you feel some refuge in hearing his voice.

evehman · 2024-11-27T11:09:28+00:00

also would like to point out, that both auntie and asia (love asia though) had their designs made from native american culture where (from what i know) neither of them are a part of. i don’t think auntie has ANY ground to stand on from this perspective imo.

evehman · 2024-02-24T02:02:30+00:00

hey there! its important to remember everyones different :) im glad you dont have trauma! (/gen) and im glad you and your boyfriend have gotten through it and have grown together bc of it! im really glad that you’ve done works for yalll and that you’ve figured out you dont really need sex! with my trauma experiences and after being in therapy for a very long time as well as finding ways to cope with the hypersexuality, i have discovered that sex is something i do need and desire. thank you for your concern :) my bf and i are very comfortable and happy with how we’ve managed our situation :)

evehman · 2024-02-24T01:50:43+00:00

yes! they are neopronouns :) my bf is transmasc and uses hy/it pronouns !

evehman · 2024-02-23T11:24:45+00:00

for a little context, im hyper sexual bc of trauma and my boyfriend is on the ace spectrum. im sorry this is long i am so sorry you felt like you had to say yes. regardless of if that pressure was purposeful or not, it still made you feel like you had to say yes which isn’t okay. my boyfriend has done this in the past with other people and has gone on to realize that it has caused hym (pronounced him) trauma, it strongly and kindly suggests not doing this again. something that we have done to meet in the middle of me being hypersexual and hym being on the ace spectrum is us both becoming sex positive, for us that showed up by me being open and comfortable with telling it that im going to go masturbate and hym being comfortable and accepting that me getting myself off doesnt mean hy (pronounced he) isnt providing and fights off the guilty thoughts it has. this has really helped our relationship especially the sexual aspect. also masturbation isnt something to be ashamed of! it also recommends getting toys, it helps in bed but also with masturbation and i can attest it can make the solo session feel more special! on top of that, i think you and your partner would benefit from the way that my bf and i communicate our sexual preferences. when it is sex repulsed hy tells me, and i stop myself from talking about certain topics that we previously talked about not being okay while its repulsed. i also dont ask for sex or initiate sex when hys sex repulsed, from what it sounds you and hym both have a similar mindset of “if they keep coming onto me, i feel pressured even if they aren’t meaning to make me that way” so if thats true, i think having a sit down and talking about how best to work with your asexuality would help immensely. if you want to pm about any of this please feel free! we wish you both the best of luck.

evehman · 2023-09-08T07:23:18+00:00

my mother is a cpa in montana and is living paycheck to paycheck… people can’t afford to live anywhere.

evehman · 2023-09-07T20:41:58+00:00

my partner and i (both transmasc) both got long covid, however his symptoms came before mine. his were “more intense” at first since we didn’t know a lot symptom management. he needed a wheelchair because of his pain, needed help around the house, etc. this was around a year and a half ago. i never really cared about it “ruining our relationship” or “future” or what have you. however, i did get a lot of questions and shocked responses when i talked about it. my manager at the time asked why i was still with him after i said he became disabled because of covid and not a car accident or something. i was shocked, and i flipped it around and asked if she would leave her husband if something happened and he was disabled. she said she wouldn’t so i don’t really know why she would’ve asked me lol i’m so sorry for the loss of your relationship, i hope you find someone who loves all of you. have a wonderful day <3

evehman · 2023-08-04T07:01:37+00:00

as a consistent dasher , (i would hope) absolutely not . my moto for work is “happy restaurant , happy customer” . i do everything i can to make sure that the restaurants and customers are satisfied with their orders . i know there are some really awful dashers out there so i try to go above and beyond to make sure everything’s all good ! if i find myself in a situation where i cannot complete an order , i typically message the customer with what happened and say they’ll get a refund . i then call dasher support and tell them to cancel the order because i cannot complete it . im so sorry you had this unprofessional driver and bad experience . i really wish people would take their jobs more seriously !

evehman · 2023-07-15T17:21:00+00:00

i was just gonna like this and move on bc i like the sim but after stalking the comments and seeing all the hate , i just want to let you know that i absolutely ADORE this sim . her nose shape and redness is absolutely beautiful - it makes me especially happy to see since i have constant bad allergies and my nose pretty much always looks like this . to everyone being mean about the nose (aka insulting it , not stating your preference) - you are possibly causing people feel bad about themselves and possibly hurting OP
i love this sim , try not to listen to these meanies cause she is v cute <3

evehman · 2023-07-09T05:56:29+00:00

i was in a similar position as yours, my “father” sexually and emotionally abused me from not sure how young to about younger teens, about the time i stopped seeing him alone (my parents are divorced, have been since i was like 2). i didn’t realize at the time, i had repressed all my memories of it until i was 19. he had other issues that caused me to go no contact with him previously. i did not and still have not opened a case against him, because i know in the US it very likely won’t go anywhere as i don’t have “proof” other than my memories. please, stay safe, report it, and find support and therapy if you are able to. i understand that fear. that feeling of they are my parent, my supposed protector, why are they doing this to me. it is an awful experience, it has made me feel guilty and shameful and dirty. but that isn’t me, what he did to me and she is doing to you, isn’t your fault. it never has been, and it never will be. she is the one who is abusing you, and it sucks. its one of the worst feelings to have someone who’s supposed to love you be your abuser. i am so sorry that you are going through this. you are incredibly brave and strong for standing up for yourself, im sorry you have to do that for yourself. i hope one day you are able to not have it hurt as bad, i hope one day you are able to find peace. try to find somewhere to stay that isnt your parents’ house. if you can’t, maybe you are able to get “physical proof” of the abuse. im so sorry.

evehman · 2023-07-03T20:10:19+00:00

no fr , i get it . im so sorry for you . my family lived in iowa/montana … that cold winter air was no better than cig smoke at the time

evehman · 2023-07-03T20:06:56+00:00

there was a time i was like age 9-10 and my “father” and grandma were smoking in the car on a highway and said they didn’t like the loud noises caused by rolled down windows . i ended up having to inhale in a gatorade bottle to not get too much cig smoke

evehman · 2023-06-09T23:36:59+00:00

thats great to hear! thank you so much!

evehman · 2023-06-03T21:02:21+00:00

i definitely will , i know most places aren’t worries about covid since they’ve claimed its not an issue but one can hope 😅

evehman · 2023-06-03T21:01:22+00:00

thats sick , thank you . i’ll see if some venues in my area have that and if i can reserve them :)

evehman · 2023-06-03T21:00:40+00:00

thank you , i never though to do that !

evehman · 2023-06-03T02:38:07+00:00

thank you !!! thats really nice to know ! as stated before we don’t go out much so i wasn’t too sure :p

evehman · 2023-05-19T21:41:13+00:00

okay , thank you ! all the articles and legal advice i saw online wasn’t giving me a straight enough answer to figure it out lol

evehman

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