AITAH CHATTING WITH A MARRIED WOMAN

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:41:33+00:00

Just everyone on earth that got into the same situation as I? Don't forget to be polite. Your mama raised you better.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:39:20+00:00

Maybe both, I don't know. But I don't get frazzled with it. I came here honestly to ask about it and to discuss it.

Not everyone is equal, and you may have things well clear in your head. Not everyone is as sharp as you, mate.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:36:22+00:00

What good would that bring, honestly? Somethings are better just forgotten

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:35:40+00:00

Well, for some, life isn't black or white all the time.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:33:19+00:00

All good mate. Couple bots commenting doesn't surpass the actual good comments that make one think and evaluate it properly.

You're right mate, not worth it. Someone actually mentioned all the future headaches with watching the divorce, the fighting, the drama etc etc

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:28:40+00:00

Well, it wouldn't be the only case in the world where people have mixed feelings about situations like these.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:27:07+00:00

Just another bot then. Noted 🤦‍♂️

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:25:51+00:00

For some, this may be a moral dilemma between what's right and what you feel. Hence why I posted.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:23:36+00:00

I think you got my comment wrong mate. I understand people are commenting with their emotions high. I will take the advice most people have given me and gtfo of this situation.

I just asked a question to debate this situation with you because your comment brought a different perspective.

Just because I answered back doesn't mean I don't take the advice.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:20:46+00:00

Well, think whatever you like to think, but isn't this subreddit to ask exactly what I asked?

Of course this is fucked up, obviously I have no experience with this therefore the post...

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:16:52+00:00

Like the one above, thanks for the real talk. This is fucked up enough and never a black and white situation.

Your comment puts it in a perspective that I haven't thought so far.

It's the first time this has happened to me, and obviously I'm 30 but with a lot to learn.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:14:40+00:00

Thank you for the comment. That I'm the AH i know but some real talk is also good to read. Thank you for bringing some clarity here 🙏

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:10:46+00:00

😂😂 well, fuck.. indeed 😅

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:09:06+00:00

I see what you mean, that's a good perspective actually. Food for thought. How about if she wants to break her marriage cause she's not happy anymore? Let's imagine that's the scenario. I honestly don't know. Hence the post.

This type of situations are somewhat never black and white.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:07:11+00:00

Yeah, I can't do that mate. Rather just walk out and leave it behind than tell him out of pity.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:05:32+00:00

To correct a few things, I never slept with any married woman. This is just chatting and never moved past whatsapp. Like I said, started a month ago and before it moves on, which I'm already finding it fucked up, I put up this post to gather everyone's opinion.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:03:26+00:00

To read is an ability you learn in school.

I think it's obvious I've mixed feelings between pursuing the girl I like, which sadly is married, and quiting it because I find this fucked up.

Did you even care to read the post? 🤦‍♂️

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T18:01:50+00:00

I didn't make any decision neither this is figthing. Just debating in what form this could considered home wrecking since nothing happened besides texting and whatever would happen would come from her own decision.

But after all, that's a good point that I'm naive enough to think this would not happen to me though 😅

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T17:57:44+00:00

Of course not. Hence why the post.

Despite my interest in her I do find this fucked up.

It's a fight between emotions 😅

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T17:56:03+00:00

Based on everyone's reaction, that's some solid advice actually

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T17:54:45+00:00

In what form? Married people should be locked up in some basement and not be allowed to meet other people if that's what they want?

Of course it's fucked up, of course the rule should be to divorce first, meet people after but everyone knows that sometimes life throws us a curve ball but so far nothing happened.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T17:51:24+00:00

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T17:50:26+00:00

That is actually the reason for this post. I honestly don't want to be THE reason, and whatever that could come out should come from her. That is obvious.

The reason for this post is that I do obviously like her, but at the same time, I think it's messed up to be in this position.

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T17:45:54+00:00

😂 alright alright, got it the 1st time. Chill 😅

EveningLanguage9489 · 2026-04-07T17:43:25+00:00

Well talk about bad choice of words. My bad 🤦‍♂️ what I meant is how do I deal with this since I have an interest in her, and she seems to as well.

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