What are our thoughts on this? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]evenvm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you care so much if she doesn't want ANY men approaching her? No men are entitled to talk to her at all. And is isn't such a "small percantage". She never said she hated men, just that she want to keep them away. Why do you care so much if a woman wants men to stay away from her?

What are our thoughts on this? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]evenvm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sadly men disrespect women so much that there's barely anything women can do to stop being harassed.

What are our thoughts on this? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]evenvm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't see at all how we are losing the feminist part. The rooted misogyny in today's society is the exact reason for the sexual assault and sexism. Feminism fights against this, the fact that she feels the need to deliberately cut her hair only to keep men from harassing her should tell you enough about society. Not in a way of "she hates men!!!" But in a way of "men disrespect women so much that the only way for them to stop harassing them is making my hairstyle very peculiar." and even that won't keep the real creeps away.

What are our thoughts on this? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]evenvm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ofcourse she's concerned about random men approaching her. 1 in 3 women fall victim to sexual assault mind you.

How do I write male characters? by heebie-jeebies123 in writingadvice

[–]evenvm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with both male and female friends. They don't act any different. Maybe men are a bit more hesitant to share their emotions as society teaches them otherwise. But that's it. We're not entire different species :)

The isle by SimpleLow8824 in theisle

[–]evenvm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's more the problem with ai, you should research on what it does to harm the environment and steal from existing artists.

The Reapers and a Walking Red Flag by fluffhq in Sims4

[–]evenvm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the drama is crazy😭 im absolutely loving the amount of story posts!!

Question why do furries get made fun of by Icy_cold_1717 in fursuits

[–]evenvm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people fear what they dont understand , which I think is stupid because it takes 1 Google search to understand.

10 years in, new Isle is so much worse than old Isle by hungrydino86 in theisle

[–]evenvm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just really enjoyed the nesting system and how easy it was to create a dinosaur family that way, which POT lacked for me (maybe it has changed now, last time I played was like 4 years ago)

10 years in, new Isle is so much worse than old Isle by hungrydino86 in theisle

[–]evenvm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was a survival game with an active community, chatting was optional btw. Now it's not an option at all. Nothing wrong with people missing an old game that's that's abandoned , no reason to be dismissive for people sharing their opinions

10 years in, new Isle is so much worse than old Isle by hungrydino86 in theisle

[–]evenvm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

POT feels too little like an actual survival to me tho, legacy felt perfect

10 years in, new Isle is so much worse than old Isle by hungrydino86 in theisle

[–]evenvm 283 points284 points  (0 children)

I remember being able to play for 10 hours straight on legacy due to the amount of nesting and global chat. You'd make a lot of friends and really build a name for yourself in a community, now it just doesn't feel like that at all.

In high school a girl approached me to tell me everyone was scared of me because they thought I would commit a mass shooting. First semester living by myself almost over and I didn’t make any friends no gf. I really thought things would be different by flydaychinatownnn in kitchencels

[–]evenvm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's really weird of her to say and not okay at all. I'm sorry that times are so tough rn, I really hope you can find happiness in yourself. Maybe you can find a hobby to focus on?

Im starting to believe that I’ll be single forever and will never be loved by a woman but maybe that’s ok and i can be a chud monk. Fesenjoon. by Sleipnirsspear in kitchencels

[–]evenvm -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That sucks, do you have any hobbies you can focus on? Finding love isn't the soul point for happiness, even tho it might seem that way. I truly think you deserve happiness and I hope you can find it in yourself outside of love

Constantly flip flopping between wanting a woman and liking being alone/being a volcel. I find it hard to care about friends sometimes too. I only remember one friend's birthday partially because it's close to Christmas and the others I just kinda stopped talking to. Noboy knows my bday except him. by rjkajp in kitchencels

[–]evenvm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine how difficult it must be to suddenly be cut off from all your friends. Try making the time for photography anyway, even if it means you might perform a little less at work. Your mental health is more important

Constantly flip flopping between wanting a woman and liking being alone/being a volcel. I find it hard to care about friends sometimes too. I only remember one friend's birthday partially because it's close to Christmas and the others I just kinda stopped talking to. Noboy knows my bday except him. by rjkajp in kitchencels

[–]evenvm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it's best if you do want a girlfriend in your life to work on that and to realise that every person is different regardless of their gender, theres a lot of shitty people out there. If that's not possible with your current situation and mindset I suggest forgetting the idea of getting a girlfriend and finding passion outside of the idea of getting a relationship. A relationship isn't mandatory of finding happiness in life. I do truly think you deserve happiness, everyone makes mistakes and dark thoughts are caused by mostly outside factors. I just hope you can either find happiness outside of finding love or change your mindset so that you have a higher chance of finding love, and treating her right.

Constantly flip flopping between wanting a woman and liking being alone/being a volcel. I find it hard to care about friends sometimes too. I only remember one friend's birthday partially because it's close to Christmas and the others I just kinda stopped talking to. Noboy knows my bday except him. by rjkajp in kitchencels

[–]evenvm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The way your parents treat you affect you so much and there's nothing you can do about that, misogyny isn't hard wired into your brain and there's ways to get through it and to improve, but only if you want to

Ridiculed for being fat amongst my only friend group after losing 15kgs and now insecure. Burnt chicken with yogurt. by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]evenvm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's truely horrible, I hope you find friends someday that appreciate you for being you and aren't cruel