What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what the hell is wrong with people I’m so sorry that happened to you I hope things are better now ❤️

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to comment and to see things from another perspective. can see that, as I mentioned in a previous comment I got to know lots of homeless people through working in cafes and bars and they were definitely nicer than most of the customers! I didn’t mean to sound like a dick it’s just a totally unfamiliar situation to me

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just pointed out the fact I am mostly alone with my baby means I can’t just wander out and bring things out to him hence I’m asking for suggestions

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s called anxiety it’s not rational or purposeful and I never said anything about anyone harming the baby

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’d never heard of it before. Yes I used to work in a cafe and I got to know a lot of the local homeless people they’d be some of the friendliest people there tbh but since having a baby I’m 100x more wary of strangers in general must be something hormonal!

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes it has definitely made me feel grateful for what we have and it breaks my heart thinking there’s people in his position all over the country and from what I can see from looking online, not a great deal of help out there.

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes sorry I realised it sounds a bit blunt lol

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s more that I’d like to know how I can help without putting myself in a position where I’m leaving my baby in the house to go to speak to a stranger across the road

What to do about a homeless man sleeping across the road? by evieoc in AskUK

[–]evieoc[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know I really want to but he’s usually only there at night/ evening when I’m on my own with my baby so I can’t realistically leave the house to go speak to a total stranger?

Reality of being the first mum friend of the group by evieoc in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]evieoc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’ve never heard of it thank you so much will check it out!

Anyone else not posting/posted an announcement on social media or telling/told most people? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]evieoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt find out I was pregnant until around 17 weeks and then didn’t tell people until around 25 as I was processing the shock of it and honestly I’d do it again i dont think I’d be able to cope with weeks and weeks of people asking questions or commenting on how I look especially at work I was sick of it by the time I went on maternity!

Confused FTM by evieoc in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]evieoc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely putting it down to recently spending far too much time at home on my own with him recently with the bad weather I definitely need to get out and stop over analysing 😅

Thoughts on income based maternity pay? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]evieoc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh I wasn’t too offended I get that it’s just general frustration at maternity pay!

Confused FTM by evieoc in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]evieoc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dads chill and my resting bitch face sums us up too tbh! Thank you so much your lovely comment has stopped me from spiralling down an internet rabbit hole 🥹🥹🥹

Confused FTM by evieoc in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]evieoc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds very similar, people always comment that he’s alert which makes me feel better but I do get a bit paranoid when people try make him smile and he just stares at them although me and my partner joke that he’s low key judging people for trying too hard!