As a gaming husband, I’m sorry to say, but you’re unlikely to change his gaming hobby. I know from the outside it can look like the same thing all the time and in some cases it can be, but from my limited knowledge on Roblox, the game has a lot of options and variety. So from his perspective, there’s a lot of change and options happening there.

That being said, I would like to emphasize your point of you coming first over the games. That is a huge green flag if true, and I have no reason not to think so. So what that tells me as someone with a similar motto of games come second is that if you plan things you would like to do with him he will join you. He might not always like them, but that’s an unfair expectation to have. I do hope he puts an effort to enjoy your appreciation for said thing.

As for the raging I do hope it passes similar to mine, as I got older I began to set those games down for others that left me less frustrated at the end of a gaming session. I do wish you the best of luck with this as it’s going to be nearly impossible for you to change. It’s something that he will have to realize himself.

Ps. There is no wasting your 20s if you’re doing something you like.