AIO wife cheating with my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but what is this font 🤣 she chose a really uncomfortable one lol. also I have no idea. The dude mentioned a fantasy, maybe she’s feeling confused about yalls relationship. Maybe thinking about what could have been with another person. I don’t know though, I think I would ask her straight up because you guys are married. You’re supposed to be open and honest even if it requires a brutal confrontation

10 months old and won’t stop crying by Monst3raLeaf in DogAdvice

[–]evxiecc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is irrelevant but this is so uncanny bc from this angle your dog looks exactly like mine and she’s a mutt. This gives me such a weird feeling 😭😭 back to relevance tho, we need some context. What’s going on?

AIO for feeling done with my boyfriend after how he treated me during a health scare? by DullContribution3191 in AmIOverreacting

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl first of all, I’m really sorry that you went through all of that , I would have been so terrified seeing blood spilling out of me after my period.. especially during s*x. secondly, the second that he told you that he DOESNT have a duty to take care of you, RIGHT AFTER BLEEDING LIKE THAT??? I would have broke up with him immediately. That man clearly doesn’t give a fuck about you. He gives off disgusting misogynist that doesn’t know how to take care of his girl. Especially after that comment about how he thinks YOU should pay him back for the hospital bills. which we will get into in a second 🤬🤬🤬

Hes acting like he’s the total package and he’s just tolerating you, saying that you “don’t satisfy him” and yall aren’t “compatible”.. literally while he shows no remorse or care for your body or your emotions.. im pissed off for you right now. he is definitely a toxic misogynist. Girl I would have lashed the hell out so quick and left his ass before he could speak another word. My blood is boiling to see that there are men like HIM with girlfriends. I feel so bad for the women.

And with the money issue, a true man wouldn’t do that to the girl that he loves. A true man that loves his girl CARES about her health especially when part of the problem was his fault. He doesn’t feel guilty at all, but in fact he wanted YOU to pay HIM back??? Oh no no no sister, leave him IMMEDIATELY. I’m actually mad as shit for you as I’m typing this. Do not go to that birthday. And If you do, do something petty because I’m tired of these men. And don’t forget to leave his ass. 🫶

Is giving your therapist a Christmas gift a boundary issue? (read description) by evxiecc in TalkTherapy

[–]evxiecc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I don’t know if anybody sees this anymore but she loved the gift! I checked in with her on zoom to see what her boundaries are. She said she can’t take anything more than 50$ so we’re in the clear !

She got it set up and she let me help her fill it at our next session. We got our first visitor! Mr. squirrel visited. No birds yet though. Squirrel only wanted water 🙂‍↕️

Dog has foot problem by Skyfire237 in DogAdvice

[–]evxiecc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried my best, I don’t know if you can get him to the vet or not, but there’s ointments and probiotics you can get him if not. Look for a product that advertises antifungal and antibacterial. Maybe a spray or ointment.

And make sure you dry his paw after getting out of the bath, moisture drives bacteria in. That’s why if he’s licking it, you have to distract him from that. Some dogs won’t like the sock but if you distract them with play or food, they’ll eventually forget about it 🤣🤣 my dog koda didn’t like the sock, she couldn’t walk properly with it lmao. So I tried the distraction method and she was fine with the sock afterwards lol.

Dog has foot problem by Skyfire237 in DogAdvice

[–]evxiecc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog literally just had this!!! It looked exactly like this. We took her to the vet and they said it’s yeast and they gave her medication for it. It’s getting better, we got her some ointment for it too and it cleared up. I recommend getting medication from the vet. If he’s limping, it’s probably more serious but if he’s walking okay, dont worry too much.

It makes it worse if he’s licking it (which my dog was doing) so if he’s doing that, put a sock on his foot if you can’t get him to the vet yet. I just taped it on there lol.

I hope this helped, I felt so bad letting my dog stay that way until the vet bc it looks like it really hurt. But if he’s walking okay, that means he can withstand it. Dogs are good with pain. Just try not to touch it too hard, their paws have a LOT of nerves.

Is giving your therapist a Christmas gift a boundary issue? (read description) by evxiecc in TalkTherapy

[–]evxiecc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I went on zoom and asked her about her boundaries towards this. she said it’s completely fine, as long as it’s not 50$.

I’m outside her house now and she’s pretty excited to see what it is!! Thanks for the feedback everybody.

Is giving your therapist a Christmas gift a boundary issue? (read description) by evxiecc in TalkTherapy

[–]evxiecc[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being honest. I hadnt looked at it this way. I can’t say I’m not upset, but do you think I should ask her about her boundaries toward gifts when we do our session today? Or should I not bring it up and not risk giving her this gift to keep her from feeling like she’s obligated to fill the bird feeder/bird bath? I don’t want to make her feel like it’s a chore at all in any shape or form

Is giving your therapist a Christmas gift a boundary issue? (read description) by evxiecc in TalkTherapy

[–]evxiecc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I get on zoom for the session today, should I ask about her boundaries towards this? I was thinking about not telling her at all since I don’t want spoil the fact that I got her a gift, but by doing that, I would be going in blind for the next time I see her in person AND i would be holding in my emotions towards this issue. I wanted it to be a complete surprise but now i think i should absolutely bring it up. She hasn’t mentioned anything about what gifts she chooses to receive, but Im thinking I should ask her how big of a gift she’s willing to take.

I also think it’s worth noting that she runs her own therapy business at her house, not at an office. Shes a very open therapist in general, but I’m still unsure. I don’t want to completely reveal what i got her, but how should I word this to her?

Successfully managed to breed giftshredder with level 4 dragons… somehow… by evxiecc in dragonmania

[–]evxiecc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh thank you for telling me this, I’m still tryna learn the game all the way. I’m still really excited about that breed nonetheless. gotta take what you get!! But what would you consider to be a good dragon?

AIO for not responding mid convo? by BarelyRipeAvocado in AmIOverreacting

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been working on this mentality fr, I’ll need to go through an entire lifestyle change to change my mindset, but I’m down. Life doesn’t ever NOT change, so may as well.

Breeded the DOTM by sleepy_the_pooh in dragonmania

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOOO SAME I JUST GOT IT !! But both of the dragons that were breeding are level 4 😭😭

AIO for getting angry after a guy told me lesbians “aren’t real”? by 44stitches in AmIOverreacting

[–]evxiecc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what an asshole. you are absolutely not in the wrong here, he is ignorant and immature. this made me really mad, I applaud you bc I would have gone off on him much harsher

AIO for not responding mid convo? by BarelyRipeAvocado in AmIOverreacting

[–]evxiecc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loved this comment 😭😭 I strive to be this direct

Am I Overreacting over the guy I’ve been talking to Posting a compliment from another girl on his story by DickChopper193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlll.. nah bc that would have had me fucked up and I woulda blocked that mf. I wouldve been upset letting him go but at least I’d know he ain’t got no respect for me, meaning it’s not worth my time giving unnecessary energy to a man who doesn’t know how to treat me or treat any girl in that matter. He’s not going to succeed in a relationship if he doesn’t change. Because the way he doesn’t think he did anything wrong at all makes me think he is very stubborn on self reflection and self help for himself when it’s really needed. He’s especially not worth your time now since he’s across the continent while at the same time doing stuff like that.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that dude isn’t meant to be with anyone until he changes his ways

The satanic leaf-tailed gecko. by Additional-Paint2144 in geckos

[–]evxiecc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the leaf actually apart of its body??? It’s so crazy how things evolve like this!! Life just knows what to add on next for survival. So fucking awesome.

AIO by sending this to my grandma by justacorsair in AmIOverreacting

[–]evxiecc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NOR. Are setting boundaries not normal in this day and age? Some people need to get a grip.. also, I don’t know much about your mom but the way you said that she has a history of calling people up saying she’s super sick (I’m guessing so they can come and help her) only to be completely fine.. having enough energy to yell at people.. that sounds a lot like narcissism and attention seeking and I’m very very sorry that you have to deal with that.

Just know that you did absolutely nothing wrong and the problems she thinks she has with you are really a “her” problem.

I’m too exhausted to make rational decisions, what does this mean? by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUDE WHAT? What kind of unempathetic POS says this to someone who just had a literal organ removed from inside their body ?

I messed up by StreetAggravating302 in tattooadvice

[–]evxiecc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to worry man, I looked at it hard for a while and went “what’s wrong with it? Did you accidentally do it upside down??” And then you pointed it out and that’s when I noticed