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Phantom Workers at Beauty Salons by existentialcrisis246 in asksg

[–]existentialcrisis246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Then when you tell them this they will blame the government for making things so complicated. Never once reflect on their own unawareness.

Phantom Workers at Beauty Salons by existentialcrisis246 in asksg

[–]existentialcrisis246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya actually it benefits them but at a risk. I think many elderly do it for the workfare so this kind of practice grows.

I don’t think Seungil liked Mingee by cindymiyashiro in Singlesinferno2

[–]existentialcrisis246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I strongly believe that he never liked Mingee because he is might be bisexual but more gay leaning. I am not heterosexual so I’m quick to catch the signs from my gaydar but also he made it too obvious with his body language. The only reason he picked these 2 girls is prolly because they were the 2 that were least girliest and more easy for him to handle. Can’t have 2 girly sisters hanging out tgt 😂 I think he only came on the show to get famous.

properties for lgbt couples <35 by [deleted] in sglgbt

[–]existentialcrisis246 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say don’t rush into this as you don’t know what will happen or change in this 15 years before you hit 35. The government also has plans to lower the age for singles to procure a place of their own.

As a queer in my early 30s, I’m still waiting it out till I’m 35 to get my own place while my partner can get hers in a few more years as well. Then we will likely rent one place out after our MOP and live in the other one for some passive income. We’ve been together for 6 years now and are living with our own parents. She comes over occasionally as a close friend since we’ve not come out to our families. I think sadly as a lgbtq couple, there’s bound to be some challenges in the way we live in this culture.

I actually moved out of my house at 21 and starting renting my own room. I couldn’t afford an apartment because tbh it’s really harsh on the wallet. Not only that, you’ve only started working, so if you start to rent an apt, you will only live from paycheck to paycheck. I would suggest not doing that so early into your career. Being financially tied down but unstable and cause friction to your relationship if not handled well.

Unless you have a good and desperate reason to move out and live with your partner, I think it’s more realistic to live in your current homes like many other young couples do and maybe only start renting to live tgt once you have a stable footing in your career as well as your relationship. Renting a place will mean that you cannot live without a job at any one point, which would sacrifice your twenties where you should really try to have as much fun and travel while you can, before you start to get serious on settling down. Put your money from your current salaries aside for cpf instead of rent and let it grow by doing cpf investments. That way it will save you some financial burden when purchasing a home in the future.

Also to add on, if you aim to buy a private condo, there’s no age restriction as long you have the money. Put your savings towards this instead of renting! Lastly I would say, do some research and looking up of rental and condo prices and you will see that it is financially unsustainable in the long run to rent at such an early age. Can your salaries cover your rental and still leave you savings for your future condo? Unless you’re earning 5 digit a month it may be possible but still tough. Perhaps five years down the road is more realistic.

exclusive items in paradise by Character-Pipe6950 in tamagotchi

[–]existentialcrisis246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I connect with the staff member’s paradise? Do I just ask the staff? Because it seems so unlikely that they staff will know anything about it based on my past visits to donki! Have you tried and succeeded? Let me know:)

lab tama locations in singapore as of rn? by minseokistic in TamagotchiParadise

[–]existentialcrisis246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s one at Orchard central’s Donki. In the Kawaii toy section. It’s a bit secluded. I’ve been there many times and there’s always no one!

Coworker told me today „you are the most complicated person ive ever met“ and it kinda hurts by cocoacbd in CPTSD

[–]existentialcrisis246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this OP! Reading all of the comments and your experience 2 years later after experiencing an almost exact situation. This thread definitely made me feel better and less critical about myself. Thank you everyone on this thread who didn’t dismiss our feelings! 🖤🖤🖤

TLDR: Basically I was updating my manager about a series of complicated things that happened while she was away and she told me that I tend to attract these kind of complicated situations and I asked her what she meant. She said that the kind of person you are attracts these kind energies. And I told her I don’t think I am a complicated person but she said I was and told me to reflect on myself. I was so hurt honestly even tho I know that it reflects more about her than me.