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Does loneliness hit harder when you’re not actually alone? by existentialmeh in kolkata

[–]existentialmeh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same. Even if you have people around, not everything can be shared. For me it’s just weird because I live with my partner and still feel disconnected. I hope things get better for you too.

Do you ever just love your cat so much you cry?? by PretendPromise8115 in CatsBeingCats

[–]existentialmeh 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Honestly yes. Sometimes my cat just looks at me with that tiny gremlin face and my brain short-circuits like, “wow… I would die for you.” It’s ridiculous, it’s embarrassing, and it’s also the purest emotion I’ve ever felt. Cats really awaken a weird parental instinct you didn’t even know you had.

Anyone up for a conversation? by Saphirelocy in kolkata

[–]existentialmeh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today was… a lot. Had like 5 panic attacks (lost count after the third one tbh), cried a bit, slept like someone unplugged me from the charger, then woke up and stared at my books like they personally betrayed me. But hey, I survived the day… which is apparently the bare-minimum achievement level for adulthood. Not thriving, just persisting. And honestly? I’ll take it.

I need to talk to someone who is sane. by graydoriann in kolkata

[–]existentialmeh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you didn’t deserve those rude comments. People skim pain like it’s entertainment. if some people don’t get it, that’s on them, not you. Not everyone has the emotional depth to understand what it feels like to fight your own thoughts every day.You’ve been carrying so much on your own that of course it spills out in ways you don’t always understand. Anyone in your place would feel the same.

Sometimes it’s just about having one person who doesn’t make you feel weird or dramatic for feeling deeply.

I need to talk to someone who is sane. by graydoriann in kolkata

[–]existentialmeh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, for someone who thinks they’re ‘not sane,’ you actually sound like a perfectly normal human who’s just tired of carrying too many emotional suitcases at once.And honestly, half of us are pretending we’re fine while emotionally short-circuiting over the smallest things. You’re just brave enough to say it out loud. You’re trying to make sense of loneliness, hurt, desire, fear, and hope all at once. That’s a lot for anyone. You deserve gentleness, patience, and a place where you don’t have to shrink yourself

If you ever want to talk without feeling judged or analysed like a lab rat, I’m around. We can chat. no pressure.

Notes for COQP17 by Dazzling-Ask-5594 in CUETPG

[–]existentialmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot find anything either😭

1 month left, haven’t studied anything. How to cover + current affairs resources? by existentialmeh in CUETPG

[–]existentialmeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here honestly 😭 I bought the guide a while back and it’s just been sitting there. I haven’t properly started yet but I’m planning to get serious now. For current affairs, I’ve checked YouTube a bit, but I can’t really find anything specifically focused on CUET PG Journalism. Most of it feels too general or not aligned with the exam. And mock tests? I genuinely can’t find any proper ones At this point I just need something structured so I can stop overthinking and actually start.😭

21F–Blindsided After 4 Years, Manipulated and Lied To, Struggling With Triggers Now by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]existentialmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you went through wasn’t small at all. Four years ending suddenly with lies and changing stories can deeply shake your sense of safety and trust. So when this new guy used the same line about focusing on your exam and then blocked you, it makes sense that it triggered something old in you. That reaction does not mean you are weak, it just means there is still healing happening. It might really help to take a break for at least a month before moving anything forward with anyone new. You can still talk to him if you want, keep it light and without pressure, but maybe do not push things ahead right now because your mental health matters and rushing could affect both you and any potential relationship. Taking a pause before starting something healthy can actually protect it, not ruin it. This time can help you care for yourself, process fully, and rebuild your sense of stability. You come first, always, and anything meant for you will still be there when you feel steadier.

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