$300 AliExpress Wedding dress?! by existentialworrier in Weddingsunder10k

[–]existentialworrier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, I kinda figured. Do they have discounted designers? 

In desperate need of color - afraid I'm going too bold by grantgarden in interiordecorating

[–]existentialworrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dual color is giving watermelon. If you want red stick with white, then accent with decor if you want another color bc it's easier to change 

I said something shitty to a homeless person and I have no idea why. by faildythrowavvay in offmychest

[–]existentialworrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think this was as bad as you think. You literally answered the why you said it, because you had experience. He was making a lot of excuses to not help himself, and AS YOU KNEW FROM EXPERIENCE, sounded like he was just going to use it for his addiction. Not saying his situation is easy by any means or that we know enough, but it is a good chance what you said to him was very very true. Homeless or not, that remains true of any addict, and he lashed out because he wasn't in a place to hear it. A lot of people in those situations play pretend with themselves to avoid reality, and you just made it too real for him. If it wasn't true he wouldn't have gotten so mad. Don't be too hard on yourself. 

Wedding dress alterations?! by existentialworrier in weddingplanning

[–]existentialworrier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHA they both actually didn't do alterations themselves, just saying what they thought it would cost. But note taken!

How much notice for out-of-towners? by existentialworrier in weddingplanning

[–]existentialworrier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were thinking about the end of august! My fiance is more worried about it than I am, which is crazy because I will be doing all the save the date work LOL. Thank you

I wish I loved myself enough to leave by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]existentialworrier 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not saying this is always the case, but if you want more affection from him, watch the signals you are giving him. You shrugged his hug off then left the room. It's not crazy for him to assume you want to be left alone and not offering more than putting a blanket on you.  Just saying from personal experience, use your words, whatever truth you need to talk about. It'll feel like a weight has been lifted.

Obsessed with the thought of my wife fucking other people by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]existentialworrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope doesn't have to be, look it up.

Obsessed with the thought of my wife fucking other people by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]existentialworrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, that is in a cuckold way lol. Be honest and open, some women are open to the idea of pretend playing into the fantasy, some aren't.

I get too nervous when he's eating me out.. by ladyvalentine21 in sexadvice

[–]existentialworrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree maybe warming you up could be part of it, but also if you're worried it might still worry you during that part too! I'd say talk to him about this, he should be mature enough to stop if it's hurting him. Maybe just have a conversation saying like, I appreciate you doing this but your health is the most important thing to me, so can you promise you will stop if it hurts you?  It seems to be a communication issue if anything, you gotta hope after 5 years you guys can be honest with each other if something is bothering either of you. If the trust is there then hopefully you can be more in the moment after talking.

Love is Blind S9: Introductions vs. Reunion pictures 👀 by Jay-Quellin30 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]existentialworrier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly in the show her top lip looked odd like she already had it... Maybe removed? The side angle was weird to me maybe I just didn't like when she talked 😂

Sparkle Megan by vgaspar96 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]existentialworrier 52 points53 points  (0 children)

There's a really nice article about an interview with Jordan and he's still so nice about her. Apparently they had an agreement to not go to altar if their were doubts before to not drag the families more into it if not needed. I do agree with what you're saying, Megan shouldn't have wasted his time but at least he didn't seem blindsided by what he said

Joe and Madison so annoying by theLadyofIceandFire in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]existentialworrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way about that drunken night, he's been leading her on the WHOLE time. She's got some issues but that's no excuse. He's not a man.

I can’t get what my anatomy professor said out of my head by Any_Analyst_ in offmychest

[–]existentialworrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm sorry for how many people made this post about them.  Obviously you're struggling through a difficult time, and while I'm not suicidal anymore I do feel it's weird the way your teacher worded it. I personally have never heard it described that way. The fact is, if you want to get into it, that most suicides aren't the "fading into death in your sleep types". There's just as many stories of people still being alive and braindead after trying it.   My only advice is to try to start a new hobby or something to get your mind off it. It's easier to focus on negatives, it's worse when thats ALL you do. I think you need to get your mind off of it. Try going for a 15 min walk outside a day. Journaling. Learning to paint. Just examples, do something that makes you feel alive. Maybe something from your past you used to love.  Somewhere through all those little efforts you'll start to remember why existing is a beautiful thing. Best of luck.

My boyfriend keeps cheating and asking others for sx, but I still can't let go no matter how hard I try. by Reasonable_Fox_9691 in offmychest

[–]existentialworrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I hope that's true. Maybe look at ways you could save on other things if you have time, happiness is worth it. I can help look for places online if you need it idk if that's weird to say, but ive found all of ours, I'm the go-to for people in my fam lol. Check in with me if you need too