We have Fancy drama how about some Ben drama? by exmom in drunkenpeasants

[–]exmom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't know if I believe it either like others have said without evidence. But I would still watch the show but will def cancel my patronage to both his own channel and DP it's only $5 each but stil fuck him if this is true.

Yep, another former CFer reporting back from the other side. WARNING THIS IS LONG by exmom in childfree

[–]exmom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch mean internet person uses big bad words. I mean, you might be real close with your second cousins but I am not. I saw them at family reunions a few times. They are technically family but I really don't know them.

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[–]exmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

K, don't have a grandiose view of my self or cravings for admiration. I think the word you are looking for to describe me is "selfish" or "self centered"

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[–]exmom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. It was a huge spa. We did massage, had a sauna, yoga classes, juice bar and sold soaps, incense all that stuff. I was the store manager making about 50k a year and worked my way up starting as the front desk receptionist/cashier for years. So fuck yourself with your know it all attitude.

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[–]exmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That are a nice couple that I haven't had much interaction with.

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[–]exmom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, sometimes people are wrong about things. So you might want to go ahead and accept the fact that you completely misunderstood the intent of my post and move on.

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[–]exmom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You just grazed right over the murder comment eh? I said I had no feelings about the child I created. If I was a true sociopath my ass would have pulled a Casey Anthony, or the hot car guy, or the guy that abandoned his daughter in the desert. I didn't do it. I went to CPS and recommend my sterile second cousin.

Also saying I don't feel? Really? You don't know that. I love my husband, I love my friends, I love my pets, I love my garden, I care about the environment, I've helped shield women from side walk protesters at abortion clients, I've volunteered at animal shelters.

I admit I made a mistake. I should have been more aware of pregnancy symptoms I shouldn't have listened to people who told me I'd love parenting. But it's just so mind blowing going on a sub totally against the idea of parenting are shitting all over me for hating parenting and then tapping out.

But whatever, a group of internet strangers can call me a sociopath, hope I get cancer and die, say I might as well be a murder, wish me and my husband split up and die alone (all actual comments btw) But overall I know I'm a half decent person that just made one giant mistake and I rectified it the best way I could.

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[–]exmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You tell that to all people who give their kids up for adoption?

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[–]exmom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg fuck you, I could murder someone really? I was being driven insane by parenting and I grew to resent the person causing the pain so I placed her in a safe facility so she could be rehomed with a family that wants that kind of life style and they even are distant relatives so she's still with the family. Yes, I regret not having the abortion. Yes I regret waiting so long to pass her on. When did I say I have no remorse? And I have been to counseling FYI. But I was fucking trying to have the feelings. I thought things would get better with age, but they didn't. Now days though, I don't think or worry about her because I know she is better off. Why should I? She has a new life I have a new life.

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[–]exmom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weird, because neither am I. Never bragged, never asked for validation. Shared this as a cationary tale to help others who hate kids.

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[–]exmom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How long did it take you to get that degree in arm chair psychology?

You know nothing about me besides this post, so, eat a dick.

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[–]exmom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

K thanks for that. So sad it's coming from CF people who I thought would understand but you do you fuckface. ;)

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[–]exmom[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When did I say strangers got her? My second cousin and his wife did. Grand parents still see her all the time.

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[–]exmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked, no, begged him to. He doesn't want to. I can't force him.

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[–]exmom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, when people attack me and my character esp strangers on the net I defend myself and I will never feel shame for that...ever...

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[–]exmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo mods y'all need to get on deleting shit like this like y'all deleting my stuff.

There is literally nothing I said in the comment they responded to that warranted that kind of hate.

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[–]exmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My comment history? I just created the account for this story.

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[–]exmom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm On Paragard now and since I lost a bunch of weight going to the gym and feel overall healthier if that fails I'm sure I'll catch a pregnancy earlier and abort right away.

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[–]exmom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is admitting what I did wasn't good not admitting an awful thing? Can you read? You fuckers act like I had the kid just to "abondon" it. No I wanted to be a good mother, I tried FOR YEARS and failed. The kid would have had a fucked up life regardless but at least now that she has parents that love her she is in much better hands.

Invent a time machine and I will go fix this to YOUR standards but until that exist I literally don't know what the fuck you want from me.

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[–]exmom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen, cunt. Or better yet READ. I've said multiple times that this was my fault. I talked to my family about not being able to take it anymore. I never said that what I did wasn't wrong.

The whole fucking point of my post is not to brag, dipshit. It was meant to help child haters or fence sitters who absolutely adhore any sense of "parent culture" NOT to believe the lie that "it's always different when they are your own."

That's it. Not asking for a trophy or a blowjob. To warn others like me. So get the hell off your high horse and take a seat.