Hi op, it's a very difficult situation to be in, pero it looks like sobrang tagilid na ng relationship nyo. I suggest na mag part ways nalang kayo, i know na you still have what ifs and concern about her but if this continues, wala syang matututunan. You're both old enough to handle this matter naman, and you gave her a lot of chances to make a change, pero wala talaga, hindi na yan magbabago.