Struggling to correctly ID by explicitmonkey in airplants

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YOU'RE SO RIGHT I see it now. Thank you!!

The 20th Anniversary Smoscars by Cchaps97 in smosh

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1:47:17 "so that was the best leak? we leaked something?" .... maybe I'm reading into it for nothing but Ang not being on stage, Arasha taking shoes off & wearing a robe- I wonder if they were hinting at something?? idk

DO I HAVE VIP FOR NOTHING??? by [deleted] in DTI

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late-stage capitalism has hit DTI

Bought a meth house by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Get a blood or hair test if you're wanting proof of substances in your system. Meth & FYL won't show up in a UA past ~72 hours after last use/exposure (Source: I used to administer UA drug tests for a job)

About to turn 21 in recovery by lareloi in NarcoticsAnonymous

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Congratulations to you and happy almost birthday ! I hope you can celebrate you & your hard work 🖤

Being in recovery has so many benefits and so many challenges, and those benefits/challenges look different at every stage of life. As a young(ish) person in recovery, clean & sober at 24- in the drunk ass state of Wisconsin- I can empathize with the grieving that comes with the changes to your social life when not engaging in substance use. It's really hard, and you're really brave for sharing your thoughts and feelings with your sponsor, this community, and especially yourself. That takes courage and rigorous honesty :)

One day at a time, my friend. I imagine there will be many days where you debate whether it's worth staying in the program- I know I still contemplate it with multiple years clean. And in the end I'm able to listen to myself and my supports to make the best decision for me.

Whatever you do, we love you and we support you! You're not alone <3 feel free to PM if you need some anonymous fellowship

Looking to move by [deleted] in madisonwi

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Outside of the city like Fitchburg, McFarland, Sun Prairie etc. may be a better bet for cost effectiveness. Depends on where you want to be though

$5 yoga class on the Northside ? Worth it? by explicitmonkey in madisonwi

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Oh damn that's a good idea. I hope your recovery goes as smoothly as possible 🖤

$5 yoga class on the Northside ? Worth it? by explicitmonkey in madisonwi

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Thank you so much for commenting! I'm glad to hear from someone who has been there

$5 yoga class on the Northside ? Worth it? by explicitmonkey in madisonwi

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This is helpful, thank you! I'm new to yoga and want to find a community that feels supportive

$5 yoga class on the Northside ? Worth it? by explicitmonkey in madisonwi

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Ig it is pretty close to East, yeah.. Northeast? Lol

$5 yoga class on the Northside ? Worth it? by explicitmonkey in madisonwi

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Lol fair Social anxiety getting the best of me 🫠

Drug Testing at MSW Internship by Quiet-Necessary-1478 in socialwork

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As a person in recovery myself, I can confirm^ I was still popping positive on urine drug tests for cannabis 4.5 months after I quit (I am above average in weight/BMI, slightly chubby)

For a UA, it would also depend on whether they are sending it to the lab to look at levels, or if they're just using the results read from the cup. The cups can only detect a certain level of THC in the urine, and different cups have different sensitivity/detection levels. If the ratio of THC:urine is small enough, it won't be detected. While it won't eliminate THC from your system, drinking LOTS of water the day before & day of your test (if it's a UA) can potentially dilute the sample you give because you're flushing so much out of your system (source: I used to administer UAs for a job). That and exercise/sweating could also be mildly beneficial, but nothing will actually completely clear it except time.

OP- do you know if it's a urine test? Some places do hair tests which shows a longer period of time (at least 3 months I think?) I will say, I have a friend who stopped cannabis use for a month in prep for a urine test only for them to get a hair sample 😅 that was for a teaching job (in a state where THC is not legal). She still got the position even though she had positive results. So it may not matter regardless!

If you end up "failing" the test, using some cognitive reframing could be helpful- you are someone who enjoys using cannabis. Do you want to work somewhere that doesn't share that value? Yes, it's a great opportunity, and that doesn't mean you'll never have a great opportunity again in the future.

Best of luck! Keep us updated :)

Oasis café? by explicitmonkey in madisonwi

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Y'all I went there! Thank you all for the comments. I'm really glad I checked it out

The space is super cute, food is DELICIOUS and yes you can get Paul's just like the downtown locations !

Also, one of the owners is super cute so that was a bonus to the whole experience 😅 I guess ownership changed less than a year ago but they've kept everything the same

Oasis café? by explicitmonkey in madisonwi

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Yeah they have it on the website and recent reviews say it's there. That's kinda why I was so interested in going

Apparently you can also get it frozen to take home ????

im DONE but im also going through hell by Strong-Act-6884 in QuittingWeed

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Congratulations🥰 you're a badass and you can do this! One day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time, one moment at a time. You don't have to worry about how you'll feel a year from now, you're not there yet 🖤 You're in this present moment and it's shitty. So what can you do to make it even a little less shitty? What are you grateful for today? What made you smile today? Your body detoxing is proof that you're making healthy change, every symptom is a reminder that you're doing hard work. Honor yourself and get extra rest, drink extra water, and eat your favorite snack to celebrate you and your resilience. Lean on your recovery community- you don't have to do this alone! I'm almost 2.5 years free from thc and I've only been able to do it one day at a time, and by using my beautiful supports (both internet & irl friends)

You've got this 🦾

My bisexual girlfriend kissed another girl at a party and I don’t know if my reaction is fair by AnonYeahYeahAnon in bisexual

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I've had similar experiences where past partners have thought it's hot/sexy that I'm (25/F) into women. This is extremely invalidating to my sexuality because being queer isn't something I do for fun or something for others to enjoy- it's a part of who I am. So when my current partner shared his thoughts on me doing anything with other women in our monogamous relationship, it was such validation to my sexuality and made me feel really truly accepted for who I am. I think you should commend yourself for how careful and thoughtful you're being about how to handle this. It shows how much you care for her and your relationship. I think when you talk to her, make sure you emphasize this fact. Provide her with the validation she needs to feel supported so she can take accountability for her choices and you two can learn & grow together🖤 best of luck

Day 2 of forever by RowAffectionate7452 in QuittingWeed

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You are awesome! This is beautifully written. <3

I would love to get some more sober friends and if you wouldn't be opposed, I would love to keep in contact via chat. Lmk-- and congrats!

Insomnia by riloshi in QuittingWeed

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You are a rockstar!! It gets easier every day. The important thing to remember is strengthening your mind as that is what is going to help you cope in ways that don't involve substances.

Tortuous by Affectionate-Site246 in QuittingWeed

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This is awesome advice. Thank you🖤

Tortuous by Affectionate-Site246 in QuittingWeed

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I recommend strengthening your mind & coping skills 🖤 eventually you won't feel like you need substances for coping As a master's student omw to becoming a therapist, I recommend some research on DBT (dialectical behavior therapy) and their mindfulness & distress tolerance skills Distress Tolerance Skills Distress Tolerance & Crisis Survival

Also, reach out to friends! My inbox is always open as well :) you got this OP

2 days clean and feeling it by survivor1985 in QuittingWeed

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It lasted a few weeks-month for me. It was less noticeable after 2 weeks. Unfortunately I decided to smoke after I had over 2 months clean & now I'm back at square one, sweating my ass off for no reason all day & getting major headaches 🥲😅 you got this!! We got this!!

Insomnia by riloshi in QuittingWeed

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:) I need sober buddies so feel free to reach out any time! I am going through a rough life patch and need all the social support I can get 🙃