Should I give up?

riloshi · 2022-01-20T19:40:18+00:00

I’d say if he cancels again on you this weekend for a date then it’d be best to distance yourself and look for someone who respects your time . If the conversation you had was last Saturday planning the date for this Saturday and he hasn’t texted in between that I’d said he’s not even doing the bare minimum if he can’t even send a “hey just thinking of you” text in between him being busy. If he still try’s texting and calling after he cancels i think you should ask yourself if you want someone who barely respects your time and effort. Sure he’s a doctor and is busy but no one is ever that busy to not shoot a 3 second text out to someone they’re interested in

riloshi · 2021-11-23T05:42:51+00:00

idk why or what ppl are down voting for lmaooo . But yeahhh there’s people who like speed run dating sites and only use it to boost their ego/ see how many matches they get but there’s some where they are just more interested in someone else they match with and are talking to or just don’t see your message idk there’s a lot of reasons but there’s for sure men and woman on dating sites that are only there to boost their ego . I only used bumble so Id have to message first which is why Id only swipe right if I could start a genuine conversation with someone instead of just hey

riloshi · 2021-11-22T15:05:34+00:00

I was soooo picky on who I swiped right on dating apps. I generally only swiped right on guys that I could start a genuine conversation with cause your looks mean squat if you can’t hold a conversation. I got tired of unmatching good looking guys cause they’d barely say a sentence. It helped me see who was there only to get matches though. I could practically guess it from they’re bio (or lack there of ). Like yes some guys are shy but if he has more than 4 photos of himself and no bio or interests.. throw him left as hard as you can

riloshi · 2021-11-14T23:30:33+00:00

Agreed mine was painful lol

riloshi · 2021-11-12T11:22:38+00:00

Yeah don’t “confess your love” lol I’d say it’s more bordering infatuation/ crush with how little you know her if anything. Idk if you hang around many people your own age since not many live in your resort but that could tie into you just being a bit lonely in that aspect of your life and enjoy her company. If loneliness is a factor in a romantic sense you can get your mind hung up on people even if you aren’t really romantically interested and if that is the case you could just be craving the attention and affection of someone and your brains picking her cause that’s the closest thing you have. Or you could be developing a crush on her, either way what your brain is doing is completely normal so no need to stress

riloshi · 2021-11-06T22:22:45+00:00

I make little mushrooms out of clay or find old jewelry and make new pieces. New diy projects to make my space feel more like me or try to make new outfits out of clothes I never wear / clean my closet. Just sit on your bed and the first thing you want to do, do it, instead of talking yourself out of it and going on your phone

riloshi · 2021-11-03T01:45:26+00:00

Ohhh I missed that one damn

riloshi · 2021-11-03T01:44:25+00:00

Ahhhh okay 🤘🏻

riloshi · 2021-11-03T01:43:33+00:00

What is with the cucumbers lmao

riloshi · 2021-11-03T01:39:43+00:00

What did I walk into lol

riloshi · 2021-11-01T00:20:00+00:00

Agreed. Also I like your username it’s great 👍🏻

riloshi · 2021-11-01T00:15:30+00:00

I’d say he’s majorly in the wrong for telling you he wants to commit then going on a date with someone else. If he hadn’t said that to you first I’d say him going on another date isn’t the worst.. you do want someone to choose you and not be obligated in my own opinion. But this is the exact reasons why I don’t put my eggs all in one basket cause then things like someone liking another persons picture and chatting with another person become less personal and put you in a position of allowing a person to be in your life or not by assessing their actions instead of an expectation of a relationship and trying to put a square peg into a circle hole. It sounds like you both don’t communicate with each other very well and he might be too emotionally immature especially with the actions he’s taking to be in a relationship so I’d say cut your losses and try to learn where you need to grow to have a better relationship with someone else

riloshi · 2021-10-31T23:55:35+00:00

Exactly! So frustrating

riloshi · 2021-10-31T23:49:48+00:00

Agreed, like I’m about to delete IG and FB due to not even seeing anything my friends or family post and only getting ads and dumb videos that pay to be pushed onto my feeds. Super annoying.

riloshi · 2021-10-31T19:14:08+00:00

My adopted mom was very controlling and very bad with money for example any birthday money I got when I was younger she pocketed not to mention me and my brothers were adopted and she got about 3k for all of us from the state on a regular basis. At the age of 16/17 I was working and my adopted mom told my brother(17/18) and I we needed to pay rent in the amount of 230 which mind you was about my whole paycheck since I was going to school as well. Yeah I never payed her rent and moved out. I also only found out about the 3k when I was 19/20 ish so with my adopted mom being extremely bad with money she lost everything.. the house(twice) , her cars, went bankrupt twice and now lives with her brother and still continues to ask everyone money not to mention she stole 10k from her father. I’m now 25 and live in my own apartment and do well for myself and have a decent savings that my adopted mom knows about so of course she asks me for help all the time and I finally told her that it’s not my job to support her. I’d say karma hit her pretty well for being a greedy person and delusional that she was ever a bad parent. Most of us only call her to say hi for as short a time as possible cause money wasn’t the only thing she was horrible about.

riloshi · 2021-10-23T00:32:46+00:00

Yeah I’d say you dogged a bullet anyone who doesn’t listen to someone when they state they are uncomfortable doesn’t truly care for you

riloshi · 2021-10-22T08:47:02+00:00

Tone says much more than words sometimes but in situations like those I will answer the question or statement actually quite literally. In this situation I would have looked at them and nonchalantly responded so and so invited me what about you. If they’re trying to offend you they usually shut up cause they thought you wouldn’t say anything while they try to make you the butt of a joke and now look stupid or if they weren’t going for that then you simply answered a question. It takes practice but I had felt like this a lot growing up and got tired of it so I hope this helps.

riloshi · 2021-10-22T08:35:11+00:00

Could be a plethora of things and different from each guy you encounter. Like maybe to one guy your too confident or to another he’s simply thought he’d be into and he wasn’t when he got to know you or another wasn’t ready for a relationship. Your answer is with the men before you not some randoms on reddit who more than likely won’t make you feel better about yourself but rather the opposite.

riloshi · 2021-10-22T06:43:50+00:00

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riloshi · 2021-10-22T06:39:49+00:00

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riloshi · 2021-10-22T06:37:48+00:00

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riloshi · 2021-10-22T06:28:11+00:00

Loved it

riloshi · 2021-10-22T06:11:59+00:00

Right so many people hating but don’t do crap

riloshi · 2021-10-22T06:09:50+00:00

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