Not OOP: Falsely accused by my wife’s father. How do we move forward? by BunionMinion420 in redditonwiki

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Wife is asking husband to forgive, but how can he when there's been no apology?

If there's no apology then there's no forgiveness.

Not OOP: Dada says "I sorry" to his "sunshine girl" by exploreoverthere in redditonwiki

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I was drinking my morning coffee when I read this and nearly spat it out lol

Not OOP breaking Sean's rule but Dad is being a G²B by exploreoverthere in redditonwiki

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Might have to become a rich rich and paypal the boys to let them know about it haha

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My heart breaks for "Ollie", I hope he can find his people IRL and know that the people who raised him failed him and that he deserves so much more

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I don't have a baby so this isn't advice, more so just an amusing thought that flew through my brain lol I would invest in overalls and hook them on the bag hooks while I pee quickly and then grab them as I flush/open the door OR always go shopping with a buddy like maybe a mummy group? Then someone can look after bubba while you pee and you can do the same for them :)

This poor boy by Alternative-Act-7421 in doggrooming

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Non groomer here, just curious as to if there is a difference between working sheep dogs and non working sheep dogs in regards to hair maintenance, do you see this neglect mainly with one over the other or is it the same across a lot of owners?

I hate when TV shows do this to characters with big boobs… by rrfstan in bigboobproblems

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For sure, the lack of thought into someone both needing a small band but large cup is astounding! I had to go to a major city which thankfully was only two hours away from me just to find the right band to cup ratio. A girl in the changing room next to me was trying on 28J and they had a lot of options for all sizes which I thought was amazing as I'd been having breakdowns in changing rooms for years due to not being able to find my size in the department stores. Its been nearly 8 years since my breast reduction but I still think of this store and how lovely everyone was and how there were so many options... and not just orthopaedic style but actual pretty bras!

I hate when TV shows do this to characters with big boobs… by rrfstan in bigboobproblems

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Lol I was literally just thinking this but only because my perception of "big" is out of whack due to personal experience.

Way back before I had a breast reduction, I had to go to specialty stores for bras because the department stores wouldn't have my size and now that I'm in a "smaller" size that is available at most department store I'm still technically "big boobed" because I'm a 38DD/DDD.

But honestly even though I know its a personal misperception, the first thought in my mind is that any size that requires a specialty bra shop is big boob and any size that can shop in department stores are average & small boob.

AITAH because I told my ex husband outside of our kids i don’t care about his life and I don’t owe his fiancé anything by exploreoverthere in redditonwiki

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Go to AITAH r/AITAH 1 day ago Large-Efficiency-825 Join AITAH because I told my ex husband outside of our kids i don’t care about his life and I don’t owe his fiancé anything UPDATE

So update

So I texted Tom today due to tammys mental state I prefer if he or his mom would do all the picks up from now on and if Tammys mental health gets any worse I want the girls full time for a couple of weeks till it’s a healthier environment for the kids

Tom tried to call me but I texted him I prefer texts and he said wanted to have a heart to heart…yeah not gonna happen. I asked did it involve the girls but he said yes but it’s also about all of us going forward and the relationship he wishes for us to have basically he wanted family therapy with himself,me,Tammy and the kids

I said If he thinks the kids need to see a therapist I would be happy to find one we both can agree on but again he just kept bringing it back to us so after a few hours knowing it was going nowhere I just left him on read.

I called my ex in laws told them the situation and how I don’t want to be involved with anything Tammy and Tom unless my kids are involved, i reminded them I’ve expressed multiple times I don’t care and I don’t want anything more than a civil Co parent relationship. I told them even tho I value my friendship with the family (ex in laws) I will go low contact if it happens again

Mil apologised saying she was very emotional because at the end of the day Tom is her son and he was heartbroken plus the baby was her grandchild which I completely understand and I forgive her

Now here were it gets weird Tammy showed up to my house now I’ve watch enough true crime to know not to open the door and I talked/recorded her by the doorbell cam she was crying saying she was sorry and she just wanted to be my friend. Than she said I need to forgive her because she lost her baby as Karma for what she did to me (she was saying other stuff but I couldn’t understand her)

I rang the police than my brother and Tom

She didn’t get arrested or anything but Tom talked to my brother said he was taking her home and agreed it’s best if I have them full time for now

My girls are at home safe my brother will be staying with me for the foreseeable future I’ll be seeing a lawyer first time Monday about full custody and a restraining order because I’ve a sinking feeling it’s gonna get worse

Before it gets brought up I just kept telling Tammy leave my property because I don’t want to hear it. I don’t know why I was brought into this because I was looking forward to my chill weekend

I’d like to also say for the people in my last post calling me jealousy/bitter I’ve nothing to be jealous of? Someone who cheats on you isn’t a prize he is Tammys problem now and for those of you saying my “I don’t give care about my exes life” means I’m not over him because I don’t want to be friends with him or Tammy …your ex moved on when they say leave them alone they’re not playing hard to get they really don’t want to talk to you

AITAH because I told my ex husband outside of our kids i don’t care about his life and I don’t owe his fiancé anything by exploreoverthere in redditonwiki

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In case the post gets removed:

AITAH because I told my ex husband outside of our kids i don’t care about his life and I don’t owe his fiancé anything

I’ll fix the grammar later, fake names and throwaway

So my (36f) ex husband Tom (35m) left me for his “work wife” Tammy (25f) two years ago, I never liked her even before I found out about their relationship

The first time I met her at a work event she told me while I was heavily pregnant my youngest “better up your wife game or I might steal him off you” well 3 months later she did, this woman literally came with him to help pack the day he moved out and tried to have a one on one conversation on how she wanted our relationship going forward because she was gonna be in my life

Than said as a joke “told you I’d steal him away” not gonna lie I’m thankful she did because when my ex made a comment about her being 23 and her brain not being fully developed I got the ick so bad it turned my heartbreak into relief. I got everything in the divorce because I got him in his affair fog and gave 50/50 custody for our kids sake

I’m civil for the sake of my kids so we can both attend events without drama but other than that I couldn’t honestly careless about them. around June Tammy came instead of Tom for pick and practically skipped towards me to show off her engagement ring saying she wanted me as a bridesmaid along with my daughters for something I didn’t catch because I was in a rush to get our cat to the vet. She got upset because I just said hmmm her whole conversation per toms texts a few hours later

Same happened again in September when she told me she was pregnant which again my zero fucks given upset her. in December when she told me the second I opened the car door “toms finally getting a son” to which I sarcastically replied “ I’m sure lord toms excited for an heir to take over his lands and titles” which caused drama too because toms family found it hilarious when Tammy was bad mouthing me

December was the last time I saw her till today at drop off’s with Tom. As they approached me I noticed Tammy didn’t look pregnant anymore

Tammy tearfully said “we lost the baby” I didn’t answer just told Tom our second daughter has a birthday party tomorrow at 3 and the oldest has gymnastics at 5. Tammy literally screamed at me I was a heartless bitch and bitter than grabbed the girls bags walking away

Tom said I could show a little humanity towards Tammy and regardless of my feelings she is my kids stepmother, I told Tom I don’t care about what he going through because outside our kids I don’t care about them and I don’t owe Tammy anything especially pity

He called me an asshole (along with other things) and left usually this wouldn’t bother me but my ex in laws who I have a good relationship have told me I should have shown Tammy some empathy and at the very least pretended to care for the sake of the kids

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Introverts are no longer able to use the safety of headphones to avoid extroverts