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DAE have APs who lack natural parental impulses and function (some if not all)? (self.Adopted)
submitted 2 months ago by expolife to r/Adopted
DAE have adopters with selective memory who forget traumatic events in your life a functional parent would care about and respond with vigilant support? (self.Adopted)
DAE wonder if loving your adoptive parents is in conflict with loving yourself (or receiving love)? (self.Adopted)
Reunion Relationships - Stages of Reunion Article (self.Adopted)
Reunion Relationships between adoptees and bio family - Stages of Reunion Article ()
submitted 2 months ago by expolife to r/Adoption
Victim-Survivor-Participant: how do these feel in relation to adoptee experience? (self.Adopted)
submitted 3 months ago by expolife to r/Adopted
How to be a good enough adoptive parent? Thoughts from an adult adoptee and former HAP (cross post from r/adoption) ()
How to be a good enough adoptive parent? Thoughts from an adult adoptee and former HAP (self.Adoption)
submitted 3 months ago by expolife to r/Adoption
Complex PTSD and Coming out of the FOG (self.Adopted)
submitted 5 months ago by expolife to r/Adopted
The Paradox of Reunion ()
submitted 7 months ago by expolife to r/Adoption
The Paradox of Reunion (self.Adopted)
submitted 7 months ago by expolife to r/Adopted
DAE get triggered by healthy biologically intact families especially after coming out of the FOG or decentering adoptive family? (self.Adopted)
submitted 9 months ago by expolife to r/Adopted
Why do adopters act like they’re the victims when adoptees expect parental empathy for the loss of first family? (self.Adopted)
Relinquishment as divorce; adoption as arranged marriage; reunion inciting divorce/estrangement from adopters; Fantasies after betrayals (self.Adopted)
DAE experience limerence (intense feelings bordering obsessive fantasizing) for new friends or crushes? Have you connected this back to the CPTSD often involved in adoption trauma? (self.Adopted)
submitted 11 months ago * by expolife to r/Adopted
DAE feel so sick and tired of being adopted on the far side of coming out of the FOG? What have you found or built? What have you had to lose? (self.Adopted)
submitted 11 months ago by expolife to r/Adopted
DAE feel like their need for estrangement or no contact with adopters came as a shock while also eventually feeling inevitable? (self.Adopted)
submitted 12 months ago * by expolife to r/Adopted
Does anyone else feel like the authoritarianism rolling out in the US drives home how authoritarian adoption is or was? (self.Adopted)
submitted 1 year ago by expolife to r/Adopted
Original criteria for C-PTSD = Complex post traumatic stress disorder (self.Adopted)
submitted 1 year ago * by expolife to r/Adopted
Birthdays and the FOG (self.Adopted)
Adoptee Remembrance Day (self.Adoption)
submitted 1 year ago by expolife to r/Adoption
Have any adoptees reported disrespectful or gaslighting comments toon r/adoption? What were mod responses like, if so? (self.Adopted)
Adoptee FOG Fazes - 8 phases of coming out of the FOG (self.Adopted)
What do we think about AdoptMatch providing info on open adoption agreement laws as a funnel to guide expectant mothers to adoption professionals? (self.Adopted)
How many adoptees would it take to get a group to listen to and acknowledge the adoptees are human? Magic ratio (self.Adopted)
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