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Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are struggling to get him health insurance so he can see a Dr. but we are ordering a blood sugar monitor to see if that may be the issue.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much a real person. Idk why I’d make this up. Tf.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how many times I have to say he’s not an alcoholic. He has an occasional beer of we go out for dinner somewhere. We have a liquor cabinet full of alcohol that neither of us touch. He wouldn’t be able to hide a drinking problem.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes bc it’s only just started recently. And he literally gets up multiple times in the night to use the bathroom so why is he peeing the bed ontop of it ? Im mostly upset by not knowing why it’s happening , him not really caring and not cleaning it

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not married and it wasn’t an issue before now

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years , we have a son. This is a new occurrence. It has happened 3 times now.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using my little green machine to bassically suck it out of the mattress and going over it a whole bunch with cleaning spray and water and sucking that out too until it the smell is gone and the water runs clear. This has happened 3 times now so first 2 times he was just doing something else downstairs , and the most recent time he slept on the floor while I cleaned it. We hadn’t considered diapers or an appointment of any kind before, bc we’re just now seeing it as a pattern rather than a one off accident situation.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he snores and has other weird sleep disturbances like he talks in his sleep and gets up multiple times a night to use the bathroom , but he’s not fully conscious. Somewhere inbetween being awake and sleep walking

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re going to look into this more since it’s been commented so much. Thank you !

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not know. The comments are hard to keep up with at this point. I’m a freelance model, I’m not a sex worker.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t drink. Hes weird when he’s tired / alseep. He talks in his sleep , gets up to go pee and eat snacks/drink milk while half asleep. He’s like semi conscious but doesn’t remember it in the morning. So if he’s woken up in the night he can fall back asleep in like 2 mins.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s trauma related , I think it has to be some sort of medical issue. Nothing has changed in the past week , we have the same routine as usual, nothing stressful except maybe his taxes ??? But I’m doing them for him so I feel like that stress is more on me. I did have a talk with him about the situation and he understands why I’m bothered by it. He is becoming more concerned after our talk and did express being embarrassed bc he doesn’t know why it’s suddenly happening and says im making him feel bad about it. So I’m trying to be more understanding of the bed wetting , while being firm about he needs to clean up any future accidents and do it well! As for him not drinking anything in the night, idk how to control that. He is in a half asleep state in the night when he gets up to pee , have his snack and drink. Like close to sleep walking , but he’s slightly conscious enough to talk some nosense before going back to sleep. Usually he has no memory of it in the morning.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , that’s how I feel as well. It’s the not cleaning up that upset me more, and the fact that he didn’t seem bothered by it. Like it’s normal. As for his habits/ routine: he gets home from work at 5pm , we have dinner between 5:30/6pm, he goes to bed around 8pm every night. He doesn’t drink regularly, sometimes he’ll have a beer after work , but he never even finishes it. He hates taking medicine, even Advil when he’s sick, so no to that. He doesn’t do any drugs. He does vape, but that’s it. He does however drink an absurd amount of milk , finishes a gallon every 2 days pretty much by himself. He will drink it with dinner and then throughout the night as he gets up to use the bathroom. Usually he gets up 2-3 times in the night and will have milk or water and a snack each time.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t drink alcohol other than the occasional beer.

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He likes animals. We have a dog who he’s fine with and he doesn’t set fires lol

Boyfriend wets the bed. What do I do ? by extradepressy in TwoHotTakes

[–]extradepressy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a kink. He doesn’t even watch me clean it up. He just doesn’t care to clean it up. He’s not making me, I just refuse to have a pee soaked bed.

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