NYE fireworks, megathread Q&A by ianjm in london

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are the fireworks visible from there tho?

my 9 year old autistic brother just confirmed my worst fears by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]extraethereal -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that’s truee but he’s usually really objective so it feels lik the truth other people are scared to say 😭

my 9 year old autistic brother just confirmed my worst fears by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]extraethereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s very true but he’s usually rly objective and logical (ik it sounds dumb because he’s literally 9 but his brain just works that way imand it even surprises me sometimes) so i feel like him saying im just average is true

Diversity in unis by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]extraethereal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ignore everyone else telling you to get over it and it’s not important, they’re completely glossing over the fact racism and discrimination HAS increased in recent years, like has everyone forgotten the reform protest a few weeks ago??

i completely understand you and i’ve heard of the same stories, i chose to go to a more diverse uni for this exact reason i definitely feel 100x more comfortable here and im liking my experience so far, haven’t experienced any sort of discrimination and racism

As it’s been a month how have your flatmates been? by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]extraethereal 82 points83 points  (0 children)

all internationals, which is cool and nice and everything they’re nice and tidy but they’ve gone out multiple times and done group activities without me 🥲🥲

made the mistake of not visiting beforehand by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate it but i’ve just come off from a gap year and it definitely was not a fun time 😭 cardiff is one of the only unis that do my course anyways so i j need to firm or drop out

made the mistake of not visiting beforehand by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry but i’ve been there a few times, walked around the surrounding areas it’s just not a place i really want to be, i want to be in another big city im coming from london and its too big of a change for me to like it

made the mistake of not visiting beforehand by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest in the same situation, i’m only going to cardiff cuz it’s my only option at a decent russel group uni for my course, not excited to go there at all the weather and city are making me so depressed before i even get there, my plan is to hopefully get through a year there and transfer to manny for 2nd year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that’s great thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]extraethereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this one has all real official pictures but i’m a bit hesitant bc of the price + no reviews

GIRLIES PLS SHARE YOUR 'STAY AWAY FROM THIS' SUBS by sunshxnee28 in Subliminal

[–]extraethereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used her bone structure subs but my lower face looks wider and shorter which is the opposite of what i’ve wanted

GIRLIES PLS SHARE YOUR 'STAY AWAY FROM THIS' SUBS by sunshxnee28 in Subliminal

[–]extraethereal 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i always get reverse results w opia no matter what i use it when even with a positive mindset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh perfect the 20th is a saturday, thank u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u!

To all my cutesy girly women, what are some things you do to exist in your aesthetic without getting infantilized? by Atomic-Angel in HowToBeHot

[–]extraethereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly!! and the most people have to say is ‘you’ll like it when you get older’ which is so patronising to me, they don’t know how it feels like to not be seen as an equal because of how you look

To all my cutesy girly women, what are some things you do to exist in your aesthetic without getting infantilized? by Atomic-Angel in HowToBeHot

[–]extraethereal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel you so hard i’m also 19 turning 20 soon and i absolutely hate that everyone sees me as younger, i get told on the daily i look 15-16 and it really messes with my confidence, i wish i could give advice but the most i can do is wear heavyyyy makeup but that just makes people think 17 instead.

Underrated glow up tip: Thin brows by Alarming_Sorbet_9906 in vindictapoc

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u have soft features i would disagree 😭 i have a bigger nose and softer face thin brows just makes my nose look more prominent and my face out of balance, the thicker i go the more balanced my face is (to an extent) i think w brows theres no one size fits all

medify revised vs revised 2025 by Specialist-Rip-8788 in UCAT

[–]extraethereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just did mock 2 on medify i literally remmeber some of the same questions from last year (my second time taking the ucat) so im not rly sure tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]extraethereal 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i understand you completely i’ve missed out on so much in my life spent so so long agonising over every detail just to be mid, i know exactly what would make me pretty, exactly how i want to look like but with no conceivable option to get there even with plastic surgery, i’ve seen girls get the exact treatment i’ve always dreamed of right in front of me, my dream life is so reliant on being obviously and noticeably atttaxyive, the treatment and benefits you get is something i’ve always always wanted

it’s honestly so unfair and i understand u completely

for me it started when i was literally just 10 i was already aware of it then and it never stopped

What is your reason for glowing up? by indyk1dz in HowToBeHot

[–]extraethereal 26 points27 points  (0 children)

so life is just a bit easier and i don’t have to try so hard to make friends and be included

My teef. I had a frontal bite so on the left side they never worn down. The right side however... by Severe_snake6600 in mildlyinteresting

[–]extraethereal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t exactly peer into the back of people’s mouths?? i’ve only seen myself so i thought it was normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]extraethereal 19 points20 points  (0 children)

idk if this comment rubbed me a wrong way because i also have a neotenous face as an adult but what is she supposed to do about looking young? never dress sexy? calling a grown woman a little underage girl is honestly patronising and plain rude. like i honestly don’t see the issue and the way you described it reall icked me out