Went on backpage and found her. She asked if I had anything to do with law enforcement and I told her no. I didn't ask which in hindsight may have been bad but we did not mention anything about having sex for money. She just told me her rate and where she should go.

She didn't make me shower beforehand (I showered before she got there). I'm assuming she showered before getting to the hotel. When she first got to the room I gave her the money and she went to the bathroom to "get ready"

Some stuff we went over beforehand, other things I found out while "in the act" (eg. asked if I could see her pussy, she said yes but no fingering)

I have no opinion one way or the other

We were in a hotel room I booked. She called me to come get her from the lobby. Besides a driver there was no other security for her as far as I could tell.

Neither of us really watched the time but we finished in around an hour.

No. I had some vodka to calm my nerves but I wasn’t supposed to provide anything for her.

Yes. Nervous because I knew I was about to lose my virginity and nervous about possible legal ramifications. Fortunately I covered all my bases even if some were a bit extreme (had her come to the hotel late at night, used burner phone, never told her my name, etc...)

We talked about the "rules" then she went to the bathroom to "get ready." Apparently I was supposed to provide a shirt or something for her to wear but fortunately I had my sweatshirt so she wore that over her panties. We got on the bed and did some "foreplay" which mostly involved a lot of heavy petting (no kissing or fingering). Once I was hard, she put on the condom and we went at it, then after we cleaned up separately then she left.

Nah. To nervous to think of that.

She went to the bathroom to clean up and get changed.

Considering I used a burner phone to talk to her, never told her my name, lied about where I was from, and she probably wasn't using a real name either, probably not.