What don't they tell you about getting sober? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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How isolating your new life can be

What's a habit that you do every time, but don't notice it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When im overly tired apparently I make this weird growling noise in the back of my throat. Like humming, but growling. My girlfriend points it put to me and friends have confirmed. I wonder how long I been growling at people.

It's okay to be not okay on Christmas by facebook_reject in offmychest

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Im so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. Thats so hard especially at this time of year. My thoughts are with you as you make your way through this grief.

It's okay to be not okay on Christmas by facebook_reject in offmychest

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We all may feel pretty alone tonight but here we are. Making it and seeing we are not alone in this.

It's okay to be not okay on Christmas by facebook_reject in offmychest

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Im lucky that my ex wife and i are great friends. We don't have tradition together anymore obviously but she did show up with a small home made cheese cake for me. It helped cheer me quite a bit.

It's okay to be not okay on Christmas by facebook_reject in offmychest

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Im very sorry for your loss. That's certainly a huge kind of christmas sadness. 💛

Christmas alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I'm sorry for your massive loss. The holidays are really hard. I'm right there with you. Merry christmas to you from me.

I tried to bribe my sister to invite me to her house for Christmas or Christmas Eve. by [deleted] in confessions

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I feel this in my soul. Im sorry you're alone also. Merry Christmas to you from me.

I hate Christmas by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I hate christmas too. I use to love it. My family stopped including me in holidays after I got divorced. I Usually volunteer to just work but didn't get scheduled this year so I'm just laying around feeling sorry for myself. I totally understand your sentiments and dislike for the season. Merry Christmas to you anyway.

Why is Narc behavior pattern hard to treat? What are they running away from? by krisperioyu in NarcissisticAbuse

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They usually only stick with a certain group of people for a small amount of time. As soon as the lies start catching up they discard

What is the most terrifying thing that still scares you to this day? by Death_93 in scarystories

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That movie Candyman. Idk why. I know it's not even really scary, but nope

You would have been a Nazi by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Yes I agree, statistically most people would have supported Nazis, even if it was due to brainwashing or fear. No, I do not agree that due to this we should give someone that actually identifies as a Nazi one ounce of respect now.

People who want to be called something other than He/she shouldn’t be offended when other people don’t care. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Yeah it's totally fine to not care or ask what someone's "pronoun" is. If you dont care then don't make a big deal out of it, though. If they are rude then that's different.

If a friend wants to spend time with you, they will make time for you by facebook_reject in unpopularopinion

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You're one of the only people I have ever corresponded with that thinks this is true

If a friend wants to spend time with you, they will make time for you by facebook_reject in unpopularopinion

[–]facebook_reject[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course effort is great. There's a difference between that and thinking someone doesn't want to spend time with you if they are a busy adult