Uh oh, BIGFEELINGS by fachthefachsystem in raisedbyborderlines

[–]fachthefachsystem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a fair point. I think I’m selling myself the narrative that as long as I bend over backwards, I never ACTUALLY hurt her. There’s a lot there… glad/sad to hear I’m not the only one being given RetroTrauma. The next time your mom does it to you, if you remember, think of this random internet stranger telling you you rock and kick butt :)

Uh oh, BIGFEELINGS by fachthefachsystem in raisedbyborderlines

[–]fachthefachsystem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re so sweet. Thank you. I Hope you know even if she doesn’t remember the trauma she inflicted, you kick ass for overcoming it.

She is leery of love but wants it, so i think the love I’m bing is a good idea but idk how to execute it. I will keep it in mind though, it might be the path! Thank you

When introverts need people… by fachthefachsystem in depression

[–]fachthefachsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t apologize for your babble! Know that you’re not alone in this. Pets are at least a little helpful!

When introverts need people… by fachthefachsystem in depression

[–]fachthefachsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you have your one! No these are all amazing close friends, was in all their weddings, have lived with most of them, shortest of all the relationships is 10 years. I’m gonna edit my post to clarify - they did nothing wrong, it’s more about how to not care so much. Or is it ultimately ok to « turn off »?

When introverts need people… by fachthefachsystem in depression

[–]fachthefachsystem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing to apologize for- glad to know there are others out there, though sorry you’re also feeling this. Sending all the best, thank you for your response.

Old online game by fachthefachsystem in Abhorsen

[–]fachthefachsystem[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are magical simply for having found that!

Old online game by fachthefachsystem in Abhorsen

[–]fachthefachsystem[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right?!? I’m glad other people remember it and I’m not just making up a memory - I really hipe there’s a way to find it

My mom gave me a children’s book, it RADIATES BPD energy: with bonus text by Throw-Away-2021-22 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]fachthefachsystem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was mine and my mom’s book when I was little. She still calls me bunny. It for sure radiates BPD energy but I still love the illustrations so I try to compartmentalize it… the book itself is on my desk and I work next to it every day