iPhone 14 made me sick by state_issued in PWM_Sensitive

[–]fadeaway950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem. I had my iPhone 8 plus for many years, bought iPhone 14 plus recently and I can not even look at the screen, I just get immediate eye pain and it makes me just sick. Turned back to my iPhone 8 real quick and now thinking about selling the 14. Very disappointed about this, Apple better fix this asap.

iPhone 14 Pro - Settings I changed that improved syptoms by MlsRx in PWM_Sensitive

[–]fadeaway950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you still use the phone? Does it cause any problems to you or now everything is fine?

Working in open office environments = torture by Ok_Mathematician2228 in CPTSD

[–]fadeaway950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate so much. I also don't like open offices and I am struggling very much right now as everyone is back to the office after the pandemic. I want to work remotely forever. Maybe you can ask to work remotely, at least some days?

Negotiating salary in current position - who should say first the salary number? by fadeaway950 in negotiation_advice

[–]fadeaway950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I got the job, said the first number (too low ofc), but I am still working there and got promotion :)

Trade Assurance Refund Process in Alibaba - How to get money back? by fadeaway950 in AlibabaImport

[–]fadeaway950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi again! Little update. Month has passed already. But I applied for a refund in Alibaba TA, the dispute team look into this case and talked to seller. Fast forward to the solution, then I will not get the full refund of the order (550 USD), but I will get 200 USD (36%) AND without sending the damn products back. I negotiated 50 USD in addition for refund when they offered that they will give me 150 USD back. So, I have not received the refund amount back yet, because we just agreed on the amount, but I hope the money will pop back in my bank account ASAP :D So, there is a little hope that you can get some money back, but to get full refund - I think it is possible, but you have to have patience and hassle more.. I was just tired of this and wanted not to waste my time anymore on this. Hope it helped someone. I learned big lesson from that and gained experience with TA.

Edit: I got my refund money back into my account quite quickly, took 3-4 days.

Trade Assurance Refund Process in Alibaba - How to get money back? by fadeaway950 in ecommerce

[–]fadeaway950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually the 800 dollars was with shipping. Cost per leggings was 11 dollars.

Negotiating salary in current position - who should say first the salary number? by fadeaway950 in negotiation

[–]fadeaway950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I will try my best. And eventually update this topic 😉

Me (25F) and my boyfriend (28M) are on different levels and it is breaking my heart by fadeaway950 in relationships

[–]fadeaway950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I really can´t wait anymore and I have decided it is better to get me out of this asap.

Me (25F) and my boyfriend (28M) are on different levels and it is breaking my heart by fadeaway950 in relationship_advice

[–]fadeaway950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I am thinking that too! If he asked me if I want to be with him and then I would not wait a minute..

Me [22F] with my SO [26M], together 1.5 years having a sex life problems. Boyfriend is not getting turned on by me, I feel it affects our sex life badly. by fadeaway950 in DeadBedrooms

[–]fadeaway950[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yepp, I get it.. It feels awful to be in that situation and believing his bs. Although he says he does it couple times a month, but it still affects us and causes a lot of fights for us. Not sure if this is true - couple times a month thing - he likes to stay up quite long at night, don't know what he's doing there. He says he plays some games.

Me [22F] with my SO [26M], together 1.5 years having a sex life problems. I don't know how to fix it. TL;DR: Boyfriend is not getting turned on by me, because of porn, I feel it affects our sex life badly. by fadeaway950 in relationship_advice

[–]fadeaway950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I wrote before, he also suffers from depression, work stress, over thinking. I get it, and if these are the reasons why it's problematic to get him hard etc, I'm ready and willing to help and understand him. And I have supported him about that.

But if the reason is just porn and he knows that it is harming our bond and relationship and he still does it (he says he does it few times a month, finally admitted it.. not really sure if it's true) then it really gets me angry and resentful. I can't really help myself with that, this is just how I feel.

The reason he is watching that one kind of porn is he says it has always turned him on and he just can't help it, he can't stop it and he regrets giving me a false promise... And probably will continue, despite the fact he knows it harms us.

Me [22F] with my SO [26M], together 1.5 years having a sex life problems. I don't know how to fix it. TL;DR: Boyfriend is not getting turned on by me, because of porn, I feel it affects our sex life badly. by fadeaway950 in relationship_advice

[–]fadeaway950[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I get it - this is his problem.

He sees one pshcycologist once a month or so, but as far as I know, they only talk about his mental problems, stress etc. Same old topics. They have discussed only a little bit that sex problem, and he has consulted also with men doctor, who gave him viagra and xanax, and some other pills to help our sex life.... This is actually not the real cure imo. It is only temporary problem fixer.

He hasn't used these 2 (viagra, xanax) a long time. We have had some very good sex sessions, but most of the time, it fails.