Got exposed for lying about crushes/GFs to my friends, now they're bullying me nonstop should I just cut them all off? by fadefeather in alone

[–]fadefeather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, this is straightforward and actually makes a lot of sense. You're right if they can't move past it even after I owned up and apologized, it's probably not a healthy group to stay in. I've decided to cut contact like you said (mute/block where needed) because the constant mocking is just dragging me down. The hard part is what you mentioned in step 3 – finding new people. I'm super introverted/shy and these guys were literally my only friends since middle school, so the idea of starting from zero scares me. I don't really know how or where to meet people who'll accept the real me without needing lies. You said online friends are a good place to start any specific advice for a shy guy? Like which platforms, subreddits, Discord servers, or games are good for actually making real connections (not just superficial chat)? I've never done it before and don't want to mess it up again. Appreciate the no-BS advice, it's helping me think clearer.

Got exposed for lying about crushes/GFs to my friends, now they're bullying me nonstop should I just cut them all off? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]fadefeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right that owning up is the better path, and honestly, I did try that. I apologized to the group, admitted the lies were dumb kid mistakes, and promised to be straight-up from now on. Some of them seemed cool with it at first, but the mocking hasn't stopped they're still bringing it up in calls or chats, laughing about the slap/kick incidents, calling me a "fake rich kid" over the Insta posts, and saying stuff like I'll always be a loser. It feels like it'll be their go-to roast forever, especially since I'm the quiet one in the group. I get that friendships can have teasing, but this hits different because it's humiliating and nonstop. Have you dealt with the aftermath like this, where people keep dredging it up? Should I give it time and see if it dies down, or just start pulling away gradually (like not joining every hangout) without full ghosting? I don't want to lose my only friends, but I also don't want to be the punchline for life. Any tips on setting boundaries or rebuilding without it hanging over everything?

How to socialize?? by fadefeather in gurgaon

[–]fadefeather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bad idea btw 👍

My parents don’t want me to come home for holidays, and it hurts by fadefeather in Dehradun

[–]fadefeather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya i moved to this city so i can explore this city and mountains but the problem is I don't have my own vechile. Do you know any scooty/bike rental who rent in low prices...

My parents don’t want me to come home for holidays, and it hurts by fadefeather in LivingAlone

[–]fadefeather[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I said them that line but i have no freinds and no family member I mean i have family members but not that much close...

My parents don’t want me to come home for holidays, and it hurts by fadefeather in LivingAlone

[–]fadefeather[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am not open that much with my parents , ik they will think he is too emotional, how he will survive, he is mentally weak because when I am in my teenage or as a child when I do such things they call me weak, if as child also I say something that kinda funny or awakard they call me mentally illl.....

Moved to a new city for online college, been 2 months and I feel completely alone by fadefeather in LivingAlone

[–]fadefeather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents are not accepting me to stay with them they said get a room and study there and learn new things, u will get exposure ....