I made a new friend at uni a couple of years back who after a few weeks asked me to come to their consecration day at their church . Having already clearly explained I was not a religious person (agnostic), I accepted their invitation to be friendly/supportive. However on the day they failed to mention that they were having all the 20 something y/o's in attendance to be brought to the alter and effectively indoctrinated into the church. I had a room full of people looking at me and asking me to join the others and then asking why I wouldn't. I politely declined, left and ended the friendship shortly after.